Why can't I be like them so they stop bullying me?
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Updated: Nov 2, 2020
Anonymous
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Dec 29, 2015
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No no no, you don't have to be like them so that they stop bullying you, you don't have to change yourself for people who don't feel good about themselves. Life is too short to spend it on changing yourself for useless people that are never going to change
Anonymous
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Feb 15, 2016
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If people are bullying you, you don't need to change yourself to be more like them. Look at them. They're bullies. They're dirt on the bottom of your shoe. You are superior. If anything, they should be more like you. Never shape yourself for anyone, especially a bully. You're perfect the way you are.
Winter41
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Mar 8, 2016
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You don't have to be like then , you have to be like you . Never be ashamed of who you are , they bully you because they wish they were you . Own what your mama gave you and kill them with your smile .
Anonymous
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May 31, 2016
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Have you ever heard of "stooping to their level"? If you decide to change yourself, you're inevitably letting them win by having so much influence on you.
Anonymous
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Jun 14, 2016
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You can't be like them as you're not pathetic. If they bully you , they probably have unresolved issues with themselves , feel threatened by you or you're an interesting person.
StayStrong152
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Jun 28, 2016
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Being like a bully will not stop them from tormenting you. If anything, getting closer to the bully makes it easier for them to bully you because you are closer to them. They do it to harm you because it makes them feel better about themselves. It makes them feel like they have some sort of power over you, which makes them feel bigger. The best way to avoid getting bullied is to ignore them and not give them the feeling that they can overpower you and have an effect on you.
Anonymous
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Sep 12, 2016
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Don't copy other, be yourself. That's what I have to say, you should not need to be ashamed of who you are. You're perfect the way you are. Bullies just drag others down to feel better themselves.
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