Why can't I be like them so they stop bullying me?

You can't be like them to have them stop bullying you because you are experiencing it through a different perspective as well as you don't know the reasons behind the bullies in why they took this action to cause a threat upon you or others.

If you wanted to be like them, that'd mean you'd be a bully aswell and the cycle would never end. Standing out as an individual is a brave move, and it's going to get targeted. Though, bravery can lead to strength, and strength can lead to perseverance. Being someone that people target could also mean envy, some people are afraid to stand out so they join in with that negative crowd.

We are unique in our own ways. We do not have to be like them in order for people to accept us. Bullying is a serious issues that badly needed to be address. No one deserves to be make fun by the way they look, they speak, or the way they move. I do believe those bullies are not happy with their lives instead they are envy because they see something in you that they cannot have and tries to bring you down. Do not listen to them. If you feel you can make yourself better, then do it. Change for yourself not for others. We are all valuable and worthy. There will be some people in our lives that wants us down, but stand strong and show them that you know yourself and you they cannot take you down.

You don't have to be like anyone else. Be you, that's the best part about yourself. Stand out from the crowd, that's what makes you special.

Wishing to be like a bully is the worst thing to pray for. Bullies and gossipers are like pests in our society. Just ignore and avoid whatever they say to you. Tell an adult about it. Chill.

You, don't have to be like them. They bully you, that is very Inhuman behavior on their part. If you would be like them, then you would bully other people, and them some one else will ask this question, The cycle repeated. I Hope you get, to know, Why you should not, make them your role model.

Why would you want to be like them when they bully people as great as you are? It's cheesey, but I think it's important to always be yourself

Everyone who bullies isn't cool

you dont need to be like them because they have there own problems just like every other person. honestly they arent the type of people you want to be around if they are bullying you because even though i dont know you, you are a beautiful person and i care so much about you i have been bullied since i was 9 and yeah it hurts but you are better then any of them so you do you and dont let them rain on your parade

At the end of the day, when you get away from school or work or wherever you're being bullied, you'll be glad you weren't like them. If you were like them, you would be a bully! People who bully others are usually insecure themselves or they're just following the leader. It may look glamorous and great to be part of the "popular" crowd, but let me tell you this- and I speak from experience- Those who follow the crowd, usually get no further than the crowd. That'll probably be the highlight of their life- being popular in school or wherever. But a person who has their own beliefs and who is different and who is kind to people will get so much further than them. Why would you want to be like them, when you're already BETTER than them?