Why can't I be like them so they stop bullying me?

Bullies are sometimes insecure people themselves and they bully to make themselves feel big..so may I ask would you want to be like them?

You shouldn't feel like you have to change to fit someone elses taste, people that judge others based on their looks or personality, without knowing that one person personally, are close minded fools. You should never let anyone else make you feel like you're not good enough for them, because you are. And being yourself is what makes you special and unique. If a group of people don't get along with you simply because you're different, then they don't even deserve your company in the first place. Find friends that actually make you feel good about yourself.

Word of advice from somone who has dealt with bullying- don't. Don't be like the, they hurt people, don't hate yourself becuase someone is cruel. (You can't please everyone- someone will always be hateful.) Don't change yourself to be someone that isn't you. You can't be like them becuase you are you! :) Don't be a second rate anyone, be a first rate you!

You are made to be you don't let some bullys get in your way shoiw them you don't care what they think next time they bully you say who cares and walk away or just plain walk away it is not worth you time to stand there and let them pick on you

Being like them, as in being like the bullies, is not something anyone should decide to do. It only let's them win and you would then be doing the wrong to others by joining their side. You need to stick up for yourself, fight for your dignity, and tell many people along the way which can help you.

You don t want to follow in their footsteps, two wrongs don't make a right. Remember that in life there are people that are always going to be jealous, so forget them. Be the bigger person youll thank yourself much more

As much as you may want to be like them, you don't want to be like a bully. You are your own person and should be proud of being you. The bullies are the ones who are wrong and need to change. In my experience bullies are the way they are because they have had to be tough due to something that has happened to them, or the way they we're brought up. That is their issue not yours. Stand tall and be proud to be you.

Being bullied might not be a reflection on yourself,Bullying is often an underlying issue within the bully himself.

Because everyone is unique. This is, indeed, a very common response, but you are and you shouldn't feel that you need to be like them so they stop bullying you. Keep being who you are and I know you'll get somewhere quickly. Never try to conform to how they are because it may only stifle your true colors.

Uniqueness is a wonderful trait. I suggest you speak to someone regarding this major issue. Every person deserves to live free of fear and taking the necessary steps to prevent future bullying is vital. You got this!