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What's the difference between bullying and teasing?

Profile: pq
pq on Mar 27, 2019
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This is actually a pretty simple answer. It's interesting, when I was in elementary we went through this whole thing on teasing and taunting. Teasing is playful, taunting is hurtful. Truly, it's as simple as, are you with your friends or not? If you are, oftentimes it is teasing. The problems arise, though, when the teasing doesn't cease, and you end up bullying someone without realizing that's what you're doing. It's a bit of a segue, but most kidnapping doesn't happen by strangers; the same goes with bullying. Typically, they previously know you. The easiest way to distinguish it is to ask, "is it something the person that it is being directed towards could honestly laughed at if it was directed towards someone else, or is it hurtful?"
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Profile: DragonView2
DragonView2 on May 6, 2019
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Bullying is systematic: they target the same person, or same group, or same kind of people, over and over again, over a period of time. For example, it is not the same if I call you poopy pants one day because you pooped your pants (teasing), than if I brand you poopy pants for the rest of the school year or the rest of your school life because of that event (bullying). Bullying also includes spreading and maintaining bad rumours about a person or leaving the person out of the social life of the environment on purpose and trying to prevent others from accepting the person, just for sake of power, not because the victim was bad or a threat. The bully will often justify the behavior. Bullies tend to be cowards, since the bully has more power than the victim or makes it seem that way, or tries to make it that way. Teasers may feel empathy for their victims if the victim shows itself as hurt and may stop, but bullies do not.
Profile: MissLisa
MissLisa on Aug 22, 2019
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Bullying is intentional words, actions or behaviour which is intended to cause harm. Teasing is when everyone feels comfortable and understand it to be a joke and understands that no harm is caused or intended. However there is a very fine line and this differs from one person to another. What one person sees as a joke might harm another and that would constitute as bullying. If in doubt dont say or do it. Also be mindful that if you are experiencing what you define as bullying, speak out as nothing gets resolved by wishing it away, there are always people out there that want to listen or help.
Profile: yancore
yancore on Oct 2, 2019
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it's actually quite easy to tell. teasing is when people usually say a comment about anything once or twice; it doesn't progress after that. when on the other hand, bullying is a behavior that persists almost everyday. of course, both may make you feel bad, but bullying is usually caused by someone who has struggles themselves. if you are being bullied, it's strongly recommended by all parties to seek a trusted adult to combat the situation. another possible way is to befriend the bully; they could be just as scared as you are. i hoped this paragraph was able to help you out! -Yan
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 4, 2019
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Teasing is typically something without any malicious intent. They are often forms of jokes that a friend or family member will play on you. Bullying however, always holds malicious intent. It not only serves to harm the person, emotionally or physically, but damages them in some way. Examples of teasing include: "Aw you're yellow hat makes you look like a cute little duck!" Examples of bullying can include: "Your yellow hat makes you look stupid." Intent is key to deciding whether it is malicious or not, teasing or bullying. In my opinion, bullying is never okay, while teasing can be harmless.
Profile: asukal
asukal on Oct 27, 2019
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The difference between bullying and teasing is bully is when it's personally attacking and pushing boundaries that shouldn't be. When it comes to a time that it's consistent and personal and making you uncomfortable, that's when it's not teasing anymore. Playful teasing is completely fine, as long as you both have an understanding or a boundary and aware of what is too 'far' for you, which by then you should let that person know that it made you uncomfortable if they continue to persistently make you uncomfortable then it's no longer teasing as teasing requires a level of trust and place of feeling comfortable.
Profile: Sagettarius
Sagettarius on Nov 6, 2019
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To my mind, teasing is something that is done affectionately, and with the (tacit) consent of the person being teased. It's a recognition of their quirks or possibly shortcomings, but it's done in good spirit. There is no real evil intent in teasing. While it may make the person being teased a figure of fun for a short while teasing is ultimately benign. Bullying is like the dark side of teasing. It's done with malicious intent, highlighting a person's failings, shortcomings or weaknesses. The intent with bullying is to hurt and demean the victim, in their own eyes and in the eyes of others. Bullying is often designed to make the bully feel better about themselves, to mask their own feelings of inadequacy.
Profile: siameselover05
siameselover05 on Nov 23, 2019
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Bullying is when someone or a group of people pick, harm, make fun of or tease someone on purpose for "fun". Teasing isn't much different but you don't harm people on purpose. Teasing is more of a major form of joking with someone but not doing it with the intention of hurting someone. Bullying can last forever or a long time and cause depression and anxiety is most people while teasing is only playful banter. If bullying isn't resolved it could also lead to social anxiety and loneliness if not handled and most tend to stay quite due to "consequences" from the bully. If you are being bullied, please seek help immediately.
Profile: sereneFlower7644
sereneFlower7644 on Dec 1, 2019
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Teasing is it is once but Bullying is a continuing and intentional misuse of power in relationships through the reoccurrence of verbal, physical and social behavior that purposely causes physical/social and psychological damage. It could be an individual or a group of people using this perceived “power” Over one or more humankind who feel the inability to stop this act from happening. But there are many types of bullying including cyberbullying which is simply online bullying when people are using a social media platform to harass you or make you feel weak, upset and vulnerable. Plus I understand where your coming from I’ve been bullied for 5 years so it can be confusing sometimes
Profile: realPeigi
realPeigi on Dec 4, 2019
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The intention. Teasing comes from playfulness and fondness. Bullying comes from deep insecurities, with the intention to harm others.
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