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What's the difference between bullying and teasing?

Profile: WildflowerHeather
WildflowerHeather on Jun 3, 2020
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Teasing is something usually meant as a harmless joke meant to annoy you at most, while bullying is meant to cause direct or indirect harm. Teasing becomes bullying if it is continuous, especially if you have told them to stop. There’s also types of teasing that cross the line into bullying, such as teasing about race, class, sexual orientation, etc, unless you have given your friends special permission that it’s ok. Anything you are not ok with after you have told the person to stop is bullying because they have clearly broken your boundaries. If bullying does not stop, please find someone you trust to help you!
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Profile: ItsRenee
ItsRenee on Sep 16, 2020
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Teasing is usually more playful, such as your friends joking about your new crush. Teasing isn’t meant to make you feel bad. That isn’t to say that it can’t make you uncomfortable. Bullying has the intent of hurting you with words or actions, like when someone insults you, inflicts pain on you, or makes you feel shameful on purpose. The difference between bullying and teasing comes down to intent. Are the people doing these actions trying to hurt you on purpose, or are they trying to have fun with you? Sometimes its hard to differentiate, but I hope this helps.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 21, 2016
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Well, 8 think first you need to understand what is positive teasing. Positive teasing: When the teasing is happening between two people with a strong relationship When it is said in a "joking" tone rather than "aggressive" tone And when the person being teased doesn't look distressed. Although teasing can become bullying when the person being teased is hurt. When the teasing is repetitive When the person teasing the child means to hurt them. And when there is unequal power imbalance. As in the person teasing is more popular than the person being teased.
Profile: WarmHeart22
WarmHeart22 on Jun 7, 2019
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Teasing can be playful and may not be repetitive. On the other hand, bullying is repetitive and intends to cause harm. There has to also be the consideration of that bullying is NOT always teasing. Vice versa, teasing may or may not be bullying, as it depends on the ondoer's intentions. I think teasing comes a lot in the boy's locker rooms, and the early stages of schooling such as secondary and elementary school. But, then again, both can appear anywhere. Bullying also indicates other non-teasing behaviors such as exclusion, shoving, exposure of inappropriate pictures of the person, and beating someone up. I know because I am a victim of child abuse and I was bullied and teased by my aunt after my dad's death.
Profile: kindTurtle1217
kindTurtle1217 on Jun 9, 2019
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Bullying can be an ongoing and repetitive action, and it can be verbal, physical or emotional. Bullying is targeted, and the person who is bullying might be doing it because they have problems at home, or they aren’t in the best mindset, and they feel the need to let it out on someone weaker than them. Whereas someone who is teasing might be doing it for fun, or might think it is funny or “a joke”. Teasing can be a part of bullying, but they are two completely different things. Teasing between friends is like making jokes, or playing around.
Profile: HotChocolate2
HotChocolate2 on Jun 21, 2019
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Teasing should never be hurtful. Friends who are close with each other can tease one another, as long as they stay within boundaries and don’t play on people’s insecurities. It’s best to reserve teasing for people you’re really close with, in my opinion. This may sound a bit extreme, but people you don’t know all that well will feel uncomfortable telling you when your words are hurtful instead of funny. That means you might become a bully without knowing it. When it comes to bullying, you never know how much your ‘joke’ will actually affect the other person. So always be mindful of what you’re saying, and don’t hesitate to let other people know when they go too far!
Profile: TakeMyHand13
TakeMyHand13 on Jun 21, 2019
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It's really more of a perspective kind of thing, I guess. Everyone thinks and feels differently about these things. For me personally, I consider teasing to be amongst friends or loved ones. A playfulness that has no true intention of being harmful or hurtful. However, bullying, in my view, includes purposefully being spiteful towards another person, with the intention of wanting to hurt, humiliate or belittle. If someone says something or does something to you that hurts your feelings, then maybe communicating that to the other person would help clear the air and get reassurance from them. If said person denies or rejects your hurt feelings then that, to me, is bullying. There's no respect there or compassion.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 27, 2019
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This can be a fine line in some cases, but intent and respect to stop when asked are two big signs for whether its bullying or not. To me teasing is something that both parties can laugh at, and isn't touching on any deep issues or insecurities. It's something that happens between friends casually, and if the friend accidentally is too harsh, they will stop and apologize immediately. Bullying is a joke that only the bullies laugh at, and is repeatingly targeting insecurities or differences about the other person. A bully won't stop when they realize they are hurting someones feelings.
Profile: riv3rrr
riv3rrr on Aug 4, 2019
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Teasing is usually light hearted and typically has no malicious intent behind it, where as bullying is intentional, repetitive, and malicious. However, repetitive teasing can easily turn into bullying. It really depends on the situation. An example of teasing might be a friend saying “Your hair kind of reminds me of a pineapple today” with a little laugh. It’s meant to be a one time joke. An example of bullying would be someone (a “friend” or not) coming up to you in the hallway every single day and saying “You should burn that ugly outfit” or “I would hate myself if I had your hair” because that is repetitive and obviously said intentionally.
Profile: optimisticCaramel72
optimisticCaramel72 on Aug 7, 2019
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Bullying is considered to be Several Times On Purpose. (STOP) it is a deliberate act. Teasing is to make fun of someone in either playful or malicious ways. sometimes it is done or considered a friend to friend activity of jokes are the main aspect to the teasing. Bullying maybe verbal as well as physical. It is used to intimidate other people often everyday through physical or verbal communication. Bullies will not stop when asked to however, teasing when asked the person should stop. Bullies tend to continue. Bullying is meant to hurt either physically or mentally. SEVERAL TIMES ON PURPOSE
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