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What's the best way to stop your friends being really mean to you from affecting you?

Profile: Pa0x
Pa0x on Apr 10, 2015
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The best way to stop being affected by this is to trully understand that your are special for so many different reasons, that al the mean things they can do ar say to you don't really matter because they don't know who you really are and what's you've been through. Also, "friends" come and go, and the real friends won't ever be mean towards you.
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Profile: FeatherIce25
FeatherIce25 on Apr 12, 2015
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Tell them they are being mean and it makes you uncomforable . Tell them it hurts, if they are really your friends..they ll be considerate.
Profile: blazingwolf
blazingwolf on Nov 5, 2015
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Tell them it really hurts you. If they dont care, take some distance. Why would you endure this. friends are not suposed to be mean.
Profile: cristiana33
cristiana33 on Feb 29, 2016
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I'd say it's better to stop being around people who are mean to you. It's normal to be affected by that. It's not right to stay in touch with people who are constantly offending you. How could you just move on and pretend you are okay with each other? Find better friends, those who really appreciate who you are and what your connection means.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 1, 2016
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Confront her about it and if she doesn't stop, unfriend her. You do not need negative people in your life to bring you down.
Profile: Alien10
Alien10 on Mar 21, 2016
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Get the hell out of there. If you think they're really mean, then why stick on ? Find your company and move on .
Profile: SoftBlanket40
SoftBlanket40 on Apr 5, 2016
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Simply, know your worth. You are worth more than any mean comments coming from anyone at all. You're above it. Know yourself, accept yourself, and love yourself so fiercely, that you don't even allow anyone with such negativity anywhere around you.
Profile: Scintillax
Scintillax on May 24, 2016
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From my experience, the best way to handle friends being rude is to ask yourself why it bothers you. Are they saying mean things? Spreading rumors? If they are your friends, try talking to them about it.
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