What should I do if everyone takes the side of the person bullying me and leaves me feeling so alone?
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Moderated by Anna Pavia, psicologa psicoterapeuta psychotherapist psychologist counselor
Updated: Apr 23, 2019
sorgenfresserchen
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Feb 4, 2015
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It is really important that you know that what the person does is not okay. YOU decide whether how they behave does feel too much for you and no one else. Also you have the right to express your emotions towards them like: You saying x when we where at x made me feel uncomfortable and I don't want you to ever talk to me like this again. It is important to find a contact of support. In this case this can be a teacher or your parents or also organizations that help you.
Anonymous
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Mar 31, 2015
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You're not alone :) you're so strong ... You just remain alone and through your good works show them the best possible things you can do ;)
Anonymous
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May 11, 2015
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Standing up for yourself and what you believe in is always important. If you are standing up for yourself because you are right about something, stand your ground. Soon enough they will see where their fault is.
Dovah
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May 27, 2015
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Reach out to those close to you, any friends you have and any family. Understand it's not your fault and explain the situation to those who you can.
LifeinColour02
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Nov 23, 2015
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Question those people in your life, if they are siding with the person bullying you - are they 'real friends'? Maybe you could let them know that you don't appreciate that they do this and that they recognise this when next in that social context. If they don't want to, you owe it to yourself to find supportive and loving friends. No one deserves to be bullied ever!!
Anonymous
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Dec 29, 2015
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Rise above it. Never let the bully see how much they are affecting you, that's the trigger point for them
Anonymous
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Mar 15, 2016
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Ask someone on this site for some help. I'm sure they can provide a lot of advice. This community is really great.
Anonymous
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Apr 12, 2016
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I'm in a situation similar to this. What I would suggest doing is finding solace in those who love you unconditionally and having them be your strong support system. Family would be a great source. Tell them what is going on and let them guide you through this.
Anonymous
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Jul 5, 2016
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Try to find new, trustworthy people who will take your side. Remember that you can always be helped through 7 Cups, there are people out there that care about you.
Anonymous
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Jul 6, 2016
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The people who leave your side were never the ones who were true, real. Find a trusted adult or person who will trust you.
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