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What do you do when the bully has too much power and can get you in trouble even if you are the one being hurt by them?

Profile: Hotchocolate7
Hotchocolate7 on Jan 16, 2015
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I personally think that the best way to deal with a bully (especially an adult bully) is to not give them any reason to get you in trouble (e.g., sending them angry emails etc) and gather as much evidence of their contact, stalking - and keep reporting these to the police and let them know you would like to keep things confidential. These records will help you out if the bully tries to bullshit evidence on you. Never deal with a bully directly, always deal with them legally.
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Profile: HealingLotus
HealingLotus on May 5, 2015
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It sounds like something similar to a bully boss or supervisor. I was bullied by my internship supervisor. The only thing you can do is tell someone above them in power. or you can work on being responsible for how you let things affect you. We are responsible for our emotions, how we feel. Working on not being reactive and looking at things differently will help.
Profile: Stainedglass
Stainedglass on Jun 3, 2015
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The easiest thing would be to seperate yourself from them the best you can. cyber? block those websites for a while, and make sure to tell someone about what is happening whom you can trust, who can help keep you in the clear
Profile: LOV1NGCH1CK
LOV1NGCH1CK on Jul 30, 2015
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Never be alone always be with friend, dont let bully see u alone he or she will trap u so no one knows if friends are with you they cant touch you, tell a teacher have a gaurdian watching, call the police, they can watch ur place or follow u home to make sure u dont get bothered, ask for rides, tell the neighborhood u walk through to keep their eyes out if they see it happening they can report it and u will have witnesses, if they contact u on social media take photos of conversation or comments they make to you, if they leave voice messages record them to turn in as proof theres lots of things u can do
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 17, 2015
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That's difficult. You need to let those who trust you and care about you know that in reality you are really doing nothing wrong. Don't hide anything and completely tell them everything.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 24, 2015
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through it all you are the one being hurt and its ok to ask for help all. bullies have the power over you when you dont have the power over yourself. so find power in yourself and they wont hurt you
Profile: JoanMcWench721
JoanMcWench721 on Nov 9, 2015
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You need to alert a teacher or a counselor. That's really your only option. They need to know that this person is in an emotional place where this behaviour is unacceptable.
Profile: PaperGhostie
PaperGhostie on Dec 14, 2015
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I had a lot of trouble with this recently actually and addressed this with my boss when this came up enough that I dreaded going to work even when said person wasn't there. I stated the facts and showed evidence whenever possible. If you can, have witnesses backing up your claim. Because a he said/she said can go into a stale mate but a he or she said vs they say is a lot harder to get to that point.
Profile: playfulDreamer93
playfulDreamer93 on Dec 29, 2015
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Stand up fir yourself tell an adult that you trust and that you know trusts you someone is always there for you.
Profile: avocadoallyson
avocadoallyson on Feb 6, 2017
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Bullies are often insecure and try to find your insecurities so that they feel better about themselves. The best way to combat bullies is by not showing them how they hurt you. If they see that their actions are not affecting you, they should stop. Stay strong and make sure you bring up instances of bullying to important people like teachers or other adults as soon as they happen. Find someone you trust that you can talk to, and they should try to help you get rid of your bully.
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