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Should I change the way I act or dress to avoid being bullied?

Profile: Aleespli21
Aleespli21 on May 27, 2015
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You should never feel the need to change the way you look or act. It is your own personality. Those bullies do not know what is good for them, nor do they know how amazing you are.
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Profile: positiveSummer89
positiveSummer89 on Jul 6, 2015
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No you should no change the way you act or dress to avoide getting bullied I was bullied for the way I dressed but I realized the friends should like you for who you are not how you dress or act.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 8, 2015
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I don't think you should. When I was bullied, I very quickly tried to conform to the way those who were hurting me. It didn't change the way they acted. It only changed the way I felt. I felt dirt, for I was no longer true to who I was and who I wanted to be. I didn't get rid of any of the bullies. In fact, by denying who I really was, I ended up bullying myself.
Profile: ams96
ams96 on Jan 11, 2015
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No. You shouldn't change yourself, especially if you are comfortable and like yourself the way you are. The best revenge towards bullies is to ignore them. They want a reaction, they want to see you react in some way - and the best reaction is no reaction. Don't change yourself so others accept you. :)
Profile: Matt5698
Matt5698 on Jul 21, 2015
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Hell no! Don't let society tell you how to behave! In particular, the media. Unfortunately, we now live in a world where the media tells us, what to think, what to do, what to say, how we look. Imagine if there was no media, how would you like to look. Thats the best style, its a unique style, suitable to you. Who was you before the world told you who you was?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 26, 2015
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You should change not because of bullying but only when you want to.Dress in a nice and stylish way just to feel confident and attractive.This will give you a power and it will be easier for you to go and and tell evil people what you really think about them.Don't cry and ask them to let you alone.Act as if you are their boss,mock at them and they will gradually respect you!
Profile: Resonantia
Resonantia on Oct 26, 2015
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The way you act or dress may be what started bullying, but it won't make it stop. Never be afraid to be yourself, no matter what who that is. Go to a counselor or other authoritative figure for help, if you encounter bullying.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 9, 2016
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This will be tough, but when you reach the finishing line it'll all be worth it. Be proud of who you are. You can change the way you think, feel and react to bullies. If you really think about it, bullies are everywhere. Even bullies have their own bullies. However, when you're honestly content with yourself, no bully can affect you and you wouldn't need to worry about avoiding them. Like I said, not a easy trip, but definitely worth taking that journey. Talking from personal experience here. All the best to you my dear!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 7, 2016
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Accept no one else's definition of life for yourself.....create your own ! Changing into something u dont want to be.. will only let them bully you more !
Profile: Neversaynever613
Neversaynever613 on Jul 11, 2017
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Be you. Don't let others change you.
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