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My friend is always negative towards me. What do I do?

Profile: pantspants
pantspants on Aug 18, 2017
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Friends who are always negative to us, may have some things affecting them in their life, and could want some help or are looking for an escape, we can always try to talk to them about this situation and see if their is anything we can do or fix the relationship.
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Anonymous on Sep 3, 2017
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Have a conversation and ask that person for a reason. Consider your friendship. Is there a reason why this person treats you that way? Maybe that person is stressed or not feeling good. Try to understand your friend.
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Anonymous on Sep 22, 2017
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If you think that you have done well with them, Be with them in their time of their needs then you have nothing to do more for them.If they still thinks about you negatively, just let them behave negatively. you don't need to bother about them. Do good and the good will comes to you...
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Harrypotterswife on Nov 3, 2017
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The best thing you could do is being honest with her, confront her and tell her that you do not apreciate the fact that she's always so negative, either she tones it down, or you stop talking to her for a moment till she calms down. Don't let her get to you .
Profile: vegetables
vegetables on Nov 10, 2017
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I would speak with my friend. There must be a valid reason why they are acting negatively towards me (and only me).
Profile: Mityvac
Mityvac on Nov 16, 2017
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Maybe talk to them. It never hurts to have a friendly conversation with your friends. Talk to them about it.
Profile: lovelygalaxy0820
lovelygalaxy0820 on Nov 22, 2017
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Start off by asking your friend why they are so negative. It's really difficult to understand someone's point of view if they aren't honest about it. If they are really a good friend to you, and not someone who only is around for your use to them, they will understand the way they treat you is not fair, and will hopefully change their behaviors. If they react to your questioning of them with hate and scorn, they are not a friend to you, and you are better off without them in your life. Friends are not there to use, abuse, and toss you away. They are there to enjoy things with you, find happy and friendly company, and share good experiences, or be help when you need it. Don't accept someone's toxic behavior just because you've been around them for long enough.
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Anonymous on Nov 29, 2017
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speak to your friend tell them how you feel and how the their acting towards you is making you feel and see if you can resolve the matter
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Anonymous on Dec 1, 2017
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In friendship, honesty is ever the best policy. Have an honest discussion with them about how you're feeling. If you can do this while focusing on your feelings instead of their actions, it's for the best. Criticizing another person is never easy, but if you do it in a non-judgmental way, it is almost always better received. For example, say, "Sometimes I feel sad because of comments you make. Is there something I'm doing that's making you say these things? I want to do what I can to fix the problem to keep our friendship strong." In that case, you're letting them know that their negativity is affecting you, but you're also telling them that you're willing to work with them to get to a better place in your friendship!
Profile: SourButSweetCandy
SourButSweetCandy on Dec 2, 2017
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I see that you're feeling sad about this situation, is there any reason that makes him/her act this way? Does he act like this with everyone or just with you? anyhow, we cannot control other people's feelings and thoughts, but try to talk to him about it in a friendly way. hope this helped
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