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My friend is always negative towards me. What do I do?

Profile: 2cupsofteaa
2cupsofteaa on Sep 25, 2016
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Take to your friend about why she or he is negative towards you. Maybe you'll discover that it's all in your head or that he or she did not realize they are treating you that way
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Profile: FluffyUnicornKenny
FluffyUnicornKenny on Sep 26, 2016
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You should tell your friend. tell your friend what you feel about the negativity, and that you actually dont like it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 1, 2016
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talk to them first that they are hurting you and that if they don't have anything positive to say either don't tell me or just stop being friends with me. If they continue just stop being friends with them and ignore them completely.
Profile: Alexisheretohelpyou2
Alexisheretohelpyou2 on Oct 5, 2016
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Well, if your friend is negitive towards you, then she isn't a true friend. Friends should life each other up, not tear each other down. If I was you, I'd ask her what is the reason she's acting that way, and if he behavior continues, it might be time to find some better friends...
Profile: turtlelyfe
turtlelyfe on Oct 6, 2016
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If your friend is always mean to you, I would tell you that they aren't a great friend, if you care about yourself then I would tell you to consider leaving that friendship, if you're deeply invested, I would tell you to ask them why they're being so negative. Talk it out, if you're getting upset about it, put yourself and your happiness first, no matter what.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 9, 2016
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Maybe finding new friends would help. Often when the people around you become negative toward you it can negatively affect your reactions, thoughts, feelings, and overall outlook on life,
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Anonymous on Oct 14, 2016
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Confront them about it. Sometimes we are too scared of what someone might think or how they will react. But truth is if theyre really your friend they will want you to be happy.
Profile: majesticturtle33
majesticturtle33 on Oct 15, 2016
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You could sit down with your friend on their own and talk to them about how you're feeling. Then you could see how they respond and take it from there.
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Anonymous on Oct 20, 2016
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Some people are negative to others because of something happening to them. I had a friend who kept acting somewhat rude to others when he usually went out of his way to be kind, it turned out he lost a cousin in a car wreck. Try to talk it out with him, he may not realize he is being negative and may be working through something himself at the moment.
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Anonymous on Oct 27, 2016
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Having a sit-down talk with the friend to discuss what bothers will help them realize what they might be doing. If the know, then it may be best to find a new friend that makes you feel good about yourself.
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