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My friend is always negative towards me. What do I do?

Profile: fantasticDreamer20
fantasticDreamer20 on Aug 6, 2016
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Friends shouldn't be negative towards you, maybe they have their way of joking which is clearly hurting you in which case you should sit down and talk to your friend about it. Explain how what they are saying or doing is making you feel, and tell them exactly word for word. If they don't understand or don't stop then there are many other people out there who could be potential friends and will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
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Profile: BiBiLSSD
BiBiLSSD on Aug 6, 2016
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Tell them how you feel about their actions. Tell them honestly. Sit down and have a chat with them, heart to heatedly. Being honest may build a stronger, inseparable bond between the both of you. Talk to some people who could gibe you advice and help you through it!
Profile: Supergirl94
Supergirl94 on Aug 10, 2016
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Talk to them. Tell them what they do or say that hurts you, why it makes you feel that way and why you feel it is negative and that they are negative towards you. They may not realize they are being that way. And if they are, ask why they are being that way. Communicate with them :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 10, 2016
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Stop talking to them , you don't need negative energy around you we already live in it so why hang with people like that. Hopefully that helped a bit.
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Anonymous on Aug 11, 2016
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Talk to them about it, they may not realise what they are doing, communication is vital in the up keeping of a friendship.
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Anonymous on Aug 11, 2016
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Think of your friend's arguments. Evaluate objectively which of them are true for you. If they're truely negative and are not supported then think of why your friend might be doing it and contact them.
Profile: EmberUK74
EmberUK74 on Aug 12, 2016
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Accept their opinion and look at myself to see what I can change or do differently to deal with any issues I'm having, as well as acknowledge that my friend may have their own issues influencing them to feel the way they do.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 17, 2016
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It happens that by experience of the world . People out grow friendship,friends and relationships over certain period Of Time they stop avoiding you. You can try to get Them back but it doesn't work .If They comeback and keep friendship for lifetime it is puregold that you have Warmth of one good companionship. If They don't return and never listen to avoid you . It will ruin your mental health and self esteem(necessary for your own growth) you should be more caring about yourself ofcourse you can try to get back your friends you should'nt give up but people who are Meant to be with you and care About you never Leave your side , just like your parents.
Profile: starryWords88
starryWords88 on Aug 18, 2016
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Address them about it! In a lot of cases, the friend doesn't always know what they are doing in those situations.
Profile: dandelionwish
dandelionwish on Aug 20, 2016
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Be positive! Eventually your positive attitude will rub off on him/her.. Just don't let them get you down. If it's getting you down, try putting some healthy distance between her and yourself.
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