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My bully says there is no reason that they like to bully me, shouldn't there always be a reason?

Profile: Pixiedust224
Pixiedust224 on Jun 10, 2015
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No. There should never be a reason for bullying because no one should bully/get bullied. But if he/she bullys you there must be a hidden reason. Envy is usualy the reason
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Profile: FriendlyFangirl
FriendlyFangirl on Jun 17, 2015
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If a bully is targeting you specifically, there's definitely a reason behind it. It may be as simple as them seeing things to pick on you about. It might be complicated too, and the bully might not even understand why they're doing it. Feelings are difficult and complicated, and motives can be hard to find.
Profile: Tiger2279
Tiger2279 on Jun 29, 2015
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The reason is that the bully themselves either was bullied by someone family or another bully, or that there is anger built up inside them that they choose to take it out on other more vulnerable person.
Profile: VictoriousVoice
VictoriousVoice on Jun 30, 2015
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No, no reason is needed. Bullies are normally people with bad circumstance's and they don't know how to express their feelings so they try to act all tough by picking on others. Some people just get a kick out of hurting people.
Profile: CharlotteBanana97
CharlotteBanana97 on Jul 21, 2015
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There doesn't have to be a reason for people to bully you. Sometimes, people are just wired in the way that bullying others makes them feel good, kind of like the same way that certain things in your life can make you feel good but you can't explain why to a pin-pointed reason.
Profile: Short
Short on Sep 21, 2015
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To answer your question, yes, there is always a reason. However, this reason may not be apparent to the bully. Everything we do has to do with previous experiences and conditioning, although we aren't always aware of it. It may be that your bully had witnessed his guardians abuse one another, or maybe they are having a hard time. It might even just be that they have unresolved issues with you that they aren't even aware of. So, yes, there always is a reason. However, the reason isn't always obvious or known.
Profile: PRUNE4BEE
PRUNE4BEE on Jan 18, 2016
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Not really. Most forms of bullying are a result of how people perceive themselves. It has little to do with the person bullied even though they get affected the most
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 24, 2016
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Of course, there is always a reason. That person could also be going through a negative situation so its important to let them know that they can talk to someone about this and it doesn't need to be that way.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 26, 2016
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Yes-there should always be a reason to every action. The reason your bully may not find a reason is that your bullies perception of themselves may be that they are not a bully or they don't feel comfortable about why they are a bully.
Profile: AzureSea12
AzureSea12 on Aug 1, 2016
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In my opinion, he/she doesn't want to admit that they feel superior themselves. Sometimes people go through rough times and they feel good when they hurt people.
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