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Is it normal for older kids to push me around and tell me what to do and make me do stuff for them?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 26, 2017
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Yes, the older kids are trying to show their superiority on you. Just because they are older doesn't mean you have to do what they do if it makes you feel uncomfortable or agitated.
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Profile: Summerrrrloverrrr
Summerrrrloverrrr on Mar 26, 2018
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It is not that normal but you have to defend yourself and show them that even if they’re older than you they can’t oblige you to do stuff for them
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 15, 2018
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It depends on how old you and they are and if they know that can get you to do stuff. If they tell you to so something and you don't do it, then they'll get angry but after a while they'll stop asking. And if they don't then keep saying no. You don't have to do things for them if you don't want to.
Profile: creativeCloud42
creativeCloud42 on Jun 12, 2018
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No. Talk to your guardians or a trusted adult or a teacher. Stand up for yourself and dont let others tell you what to do.
Profile: bcbyhcney
bcbyhcney on Jul 2, 2018
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It’s not necessarily normal. I would seek some help, talk to someone. Perhaps an adult and tell them what’s going on. Sometimes you can’t do it alone.
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