Is it my fault that others bully me?
SmilingHedgehog
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Apr 22, 2015
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NO it's not. Regardless of any "reasons", bullying is one of the most cruel things on this earth. Often it has more to do with the person who feels the need to bully others than with the victim - however wrong it is, they might want to win confidence or a feeling of power by putting another person, who is a wonderful human being, down.
goldenPeace97
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Apr 29, 2015
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well its neither your fault nor theirs because a bully is a person who himself feels insecure and so to get over that feeling of insecurity they bully you.they bully only those who seem weak to them and who seem that they have less confidence.
Pumpkin74
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May 20, 2015
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Of course it is not your fault and there are many people in bulling situations! Many times bulling is a form of self loathing and these people were once bullied themselves. Regardless of why bullies like to bully, try focusing on the positive people and events in your life. Also, if you are really down about yourself, try to write down some things you do like about yourself which includes positive things about your appearance as well as personality. And of course, if the bullying is physical or out of control, reach out for help!
AloneAcneLove
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May 22, 2015
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It is never your fault. NEVER. Bullying is cause by anxiety/stress by them. They are having problems about themselves. Thats why they target those who are weaker than them, just to make them feel good about themselves.
Hrub
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May 26, 2015
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This looks like an automatic thought: Labelling - faulty - Assigning labels to ourselves - Challenge yourself as from now :)
TheThomas
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Jun 29, 2015
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Let me start by saying that you are beautiful and wonderful. It is not your fault. I have learned that bullies are only looking to hide their pain as well. We have other ways; video games, sex, porn, talking, etc. but they choose violence. Either physically or mentally. They get off on it. It is not your fault dear. I promise.
Anonymous
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Jul 6, 2015
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Of course not. Often bullies do bully people because of their home lif, they might be experience worse then you
Molentra
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Aug 27, 2015
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NO NO NO NO! Bullies have their own issues, and it's because of those that they bully. You need to remember that you're not at fault in this situation, you didn't do anything wrong!
Anonymous
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Sep 7, 2015
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No. The bully's pick people they choose. If your being bullied, tell someone because no one deserves to be bullied.
Anonymous
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Sep 14, 2015
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Of course not! It never will be your fault! It's the bullies fault. They are taking out their insecurities and problems.
Anonymous
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Sep 21, 2015
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of course not! no matter who you are or how you behave, no one deserves to be targeted for who they are.
Anonymous
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Nov 9, 2015
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It's not the victims fault when bullies decide to bully the victim. Bullies often have something negative going on with their lives, but don't know how to deal with it, thus they project their anger onto a usually weaker victim.
snugglyMango29
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Nov 23, 2015
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they bully you because they see a desirable feature that you have which they want themselves this means they will do anything to try and take it from you
NekoBread
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Dec 15, 2015
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Is not, never it never your fault, people needs to hate other people to feel better with themselves and well ever if you do something embarrasing thats not an excuse, they bully you because your hobbies, your apareance or just for anything, its ridiculous and if you know someone is getting bullied, be brave and help him or help her, you can save their life, dont be indifferent they need you.
soothingJoy42
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Jan 5, 2016
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This is your fault. They are also hurting from the inside and this is how they are showing their pain. I am always here for you if you ever need to talk about this cause it can it challenging and really hard at times.
fearlessBeing9699
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Jan 25, 2016
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NEVER
jasminexxx
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Feb 2, 2016
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no it's not. they are mean and insecure that's why they go around bullying people to feel better about themselves. you are great
Peacfulseal078
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Feb 2, 2016
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No. Absolutely not in any case. You might be a little different, had a slip up, or just purely too awesome, but violence of a majority towards a minority can never, under any circumstances, be justified.
Anonymous
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Feb 16, 2016
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I have always found that jealousy is the precursor to bullying. At school I was bullied for being well behaved and doing my homework, My mum always told me that they were jealous of me and that they didn't know how to deal with what they were going through so they could only think to be horrible to me. I think that's the same for many cases of bullying.
AstralShadow
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Mar 7, 2016
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Of course not, if you don't actually bother other people. You are in the green field. They just want someONE to be a victim. Tis their fault to bully anyone at all. To even be mean to anyone for that matter. Stay strong and soon things will be all better. Always look for the positives in life as well. There always at least one :)
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