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Is it my fault I get bullied?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 7, 2015
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No honey, people bully other people because there unhappy in there life and to them your a threst and they ahve to amke you pay for there unhappiness.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 25, 2015
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No, but are you taking steps to stop yourself from being bullied? Whether you have to stand up to the person. Or get help. Don't let them think they have that power over you.. You don't deserve that treatment. You shouldn't have to live, constantly feeling tense or scared.
Profile: YourFutureBestFriend
YourFutureBestFriend on Oct 24, 2015
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No! Not at all. It's the bully's fault. They just need someone to pick on to make themselves feel better. Usually because they're home life or something related isn't going well.
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Anonymous on Nov 3, 2015
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No, it would NEVER be your fault. Honestly, you are just being troubled about because you are an extraordinary person, who just so happens to have very significant features that make you the best person you are today, all I am trying to say is : It is NOT your fault for being unique,it is NOT your fault for making your unique features significant! So No, it will never be your fault. :)
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Anonymous on Dec 28, 2015
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It is definitely not your fault; nobody deserves to be bullied regardless of whom they are. You should consider talking to a professional or someone who can help you through this. You do not have to be a victim always - stand up for yourself and try to get help. All the best!
Profile: KatieWhite
KatieWhite on Apr 19, 2016
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No, it's not your fault. Bullies always exists and they will always find someone to mess with .But there are steps you can take to solve the problem.
Profile: ZiggyStardust44
ZiggyStardust44 on Apr 23, 2016
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It is never your fault. Dont ever believe anyone who says "you're asking for it". Some people are scumbags, and society likes to abuse people who are different in any way. The worst thing you could do is change yourself to fit in. Be proud of your uniqueness when they're all just sheep following the herd. Be you, and I promise you one day it will all get better... Trust me. :)
Profile: JoshLlama
JoshLlama on Jul 19, 2016
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Absolutely not. Bullies typically feel like they are missing something in their own lives and fill that void by trying to bring others down to their level. The best thing you can do is ignore them and move away, hopefully to an area that they can't get to you. If they continue, it's best to bring it up to someone that can deal with it (teacher, principle, supervisor, etc.)
Profile: ListeningOak
ListeningOak on Dec 20, 2016
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No, it is never the victims fault. There is no such thing as "Asking for it" or "Brought it upon myself", Bullying is a horrible act that has everything to do with the bullies issues, not yours.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 6, 2017
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Absolutely not! You're your own person and sometimes people don't like that. Ignore them! people will always do horrible things to hurt you.
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