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How to deal with people that are bad mouthing me?

Profile: Chinmay96
Chinmay96 on Sep 15, 2016
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It's easier to say that we should ignore those people as they are not important to us or they have no right to bad mouth us. But ignoring them in reality is difficult, if we do that with real patience it would work, but in my case I have found sarcasm works always. A perfect answer to their taunts makes them feel we aren't weak and thus won't target us. (ofcourse we shouldn't be like them and even Bad mouth about them)
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Profile: 2cupsofteaa
2cupsofteaa on Sep 25, 2016
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If you care about them, confront them about it and let them know that it hurts your feelings. If not, they are not worth your time!
Profile: AbsoIet
AbsoIet on Sep 29, 2016
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Always focus on those who think in a different way about you, and avoid those persoms who bad mouth you, they are probably reflecting things they don't like about themselves in you, so feeling empathy sometimes helps too.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 2, 2016
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If you can cut those people out of your life I recommend that. If you can't ignore it, don't feed them..
Profile: EricaAnne
EricaAnne on Oct 14, 2016
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It's understandable that you will be emotionally affected by what people think of you. It's alright to be concerned, but don't let your fear consume you. Don't worry, regardless of how bad it seems, rumours always die off because old news gets boring. Don't add fuel to the fire and just keep doing what you do. There's no pointing altering your behaviour because it shows that you're affected by what they say. As long as you have a clean conscience, all will be good. Don't retaliate. You're better than they are. :)
Profile: silentmirror1995
silentmirror1995 on Oct 27, 2016
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You can imagine an invisible eraser and make it drag across their physique, as if to erase them totally. As if they don't exist. And then, you'll find them not deserving the slightest of your attention.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 26, 2017
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Remember that people only bad mouth people who do better than them. People only talk negatively of people because it makes them feel in control. However, if several people agree, it is time to reflect. Is there something you've done? An energy you give off? While some people do it for fun, other people do it in fear.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 11, 2017
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I understand that such a situation is usually particularly distressing​ to anyone. You need to know that at the end of the day that if it is really not true what they are saying about you then don't pay it too much mind.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 17, 2017
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Try and be nice to them and ignore any harsh words or behaviour thrown your way. Ignore their behaviour and don't retaliate to it.
Profile: savlilley
savlilley on Dec 5, 2017
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Ignore them or talk to them ask them why try and make friends be nice to them they want attention so they harass you for it instead give them the attention of being friends
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