How to deal with people that are bad mouthing me?
Navomi4u
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Feb 28, 2018
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dont give them the satisfaction of being sad. These are the people who feel better about them self by bringing others down.
Anonymous
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Mar 8, 2018
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Going through this can be so rough. No matter what, don't let the comments get to you. If there's someone you trust who you can talk to about what's going on, that could really help. It's terrible situation but eventually you'll get through it.
Anonymous
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Mar 23, 2018
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Try to understand their situation and see if they have been stressed or having a problem lately. Their response may be a sign where they are in need of someone to talk to or simply trying to ask help.
AlluraNine9
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Apr 5, 2018
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Without context of situation the words I have to offer will be vague. First thing to consider, are they people whose opinion of you truly matters? Sometimes we place too much value on the opinions of people who are not significant in our lives giving them far too much power over us. If they’re not a friend (and I would say they are not) or family then what they say probably doesn’t matter. That isn’t to say it doesn’t still hurt.
Two- we can’t control what others do but we can control how we react. Especially in younger individuals, the goal of bad mouthing is often to get a response. If you don’t reward their behavior with distress then it may subside or even stop.
3- can you document it? If it is in a school or work environment taking proof to management or staff can help get you the help you need to get the behavior stopped. If you don’t have proof you should still consider reporting the incidents in case you need to escalate things.
Anonymous
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Apr 7, 2018
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ignore it, there Is no such thing as a good response to a bully or person talking about you, take it as a compliment that they think about you.
Luke10
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Apr 18, 2018
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Nothing. People throw rocks at things that shines as per Taylor Swift :D Just ignore them and continue to be happy.
Anonymous
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Apr 26, 2018
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Ignore them. And if you can't then stay away from them. Or just ask other people around you to help you get away from these sorts of people.
MadisonNicole16
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Apr 26, 2018
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The difference is major. Teasing is just like saying someone looks like maybe they just woke up. Bullying is telling someone they would be better off dead.
BrandonCares1074
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May 6, 2018
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Have a talk with an adult or school counselor. They will sort out the problem and understand your problem.
blissfulOcean36
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Jun 22, 2018
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I would show that negative people in your life are not worth your precious time, surround yourself with love light and positivity
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