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How do I know if I'm a bully?

Profile: admirableLea
admirableLea on Jul 21, 2016
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You know if you are a bully if you hurt, make fun of, beat up etc. someone intentionally for your enjoyment or to seem more cool or to even get want you want.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 22, 2016
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People try to avoid you or talking to you. Another thing is when you laugh too hard to someone's mistakes or flaws even when other people are not finding it funny anymore.
Profile: mkehelper
mkehelper on Jul 22, 2016
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Think about the last interaction you had with a person who you think you could be bullying and ask yourself what emotion they might have been feeling when the interaction ended. If you think they were feeling shame, insecurity, fear, or worthlessness when they left the interaction and you believe it may be from something you said or did you might be bullying them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 29, 2016
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If you think you're joking around about someone and they seem like they don't want to be near you, then they probably take the joke as more offensive then as a joke.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 31, 2016
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Ask yourself: If someone is telling me I am hurting them and I should stop, do I still continue doing the thing that is hurting them? If yes, why do I do it? That's the only thing that will get you to the right answer.
Profile: brilliantParadise11
brilliantParadise11 on Aug 3, 2016
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The easiest way to tell is by asking yourself if you make others feel sad, insecure or afraid... put yourself in their shoe.
Profile: freshFriend18
freshFriend18 on Aug 3, 2016
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Are you making fun of others for no reason? that's a good sign. Work harder at being nice, even if it kills you inside better not to make enemies with everyone
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 4, 2016
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hi , if care and have lots of friends , then you are not a bully . if you ever trouble any one then you are a bully
Profile: miraculousBeauty49
miraculousBeauty49 on Aug 4, 2016
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If you are repeatedly trying to hurt/upset someone who is weaker than you, than by definition you are a bully.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 30, 2018
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iF you are repeatedly making loved ones or anyone sad with things you say, body language etc. Taking jokes too far or doing something multiple times after they have already been hurt.
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