How do I know if I'm a bully?

Well do you pick on other people or tease them? Have you ever hurt somebody else's feelings or made them cry? If so them it sounds like you are but I won't judge you on that because there's an underlying reason that you do that. And most of the time it's to feel better about yourself.

Reevaluate yourself. Are you physically, emotionally, mentally intentionally hurting someone? If the answer is yes than it is time to learn how to not repeat the mistakes. Sometimes feedback from trustworthy, honest opinions can help. Because it is different from a person looking from the outside than within.

If you notice those around you reacting to your comments and actions in a defensive or offended manner. If you notice others bending to your will or avoiding your presence.

The definition of bully is: a person who uses strength or power to harm or intimidate those who are weaker. I would say if you notice yourself having this characteristic that you may be partaking in bullying.

if you're hurting people and humiliating them for no proper and just reason then you are probably a bully, also if you feel as thought harming or annoying people is like an instinct, second hand.

When you constantly harass a person into a bad state, I have bullied someone before and I knew it was bullying because of how I would insult her. It is all a matter of your intention to hurt someone mentally or psychically

Having been bullied for at least 9 years I can tell you that often people don't know that they are a bully. It begins with a simple need to feel stronger than someone else. To overcome situations at home or to gain attention. You will only know if you are a bully if you are mindful of yourself, and what you feel when you encounter others, if you feel the need to gain superiority over them and belittling them is the only way you can gain that feeling, then you are a bully.

I think by asking this question - you feel like you might be one. Guilt is a good indicator that you are a bully, if you are truly a kind compassionate person on the inside. Its never too late to change.

If you enjoy disturbing others and giving them a hard time...if you feel insecure with urself and want to transfer those feelings to others and bring them down just for the sake of it.

If you say bad things about people to other people, if you repeatedly say bad things to the person, if you look at the person dirty, the usual disrespect, or if you spread false rumours around about the person, then you are a bully!