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How do I know if I'm a bully?

Profile: lilacskiedd
lilacskiedd on Jul 9, 2017
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you know if you're a bully if you see yourself making others feel worse about themselves for something they cannot help. if you find other people being nice to you, because they're scared of you, rather than treating you the way you're treating them.
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Profile: Lucinda91
Lucinda91 on Jul 25, 2017
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Is what you are saying/doing hurting someone? Are you repeatedly making someone sad? Are you repeatedly saying things that are hurtful/rude? Are you making someone uncomfortable? If yes to any of them, you are most likely being a bully
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 6, 2017
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If you constantly picking on a person and you notice they doesn't like action toward them well you're a bully
Profile: GivingstonTreegull
GivingstonTreegull on Aug 17, 2017
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Being a bully can be a whole lot like being opinionated. But you have to ask yourself is your opinion needed in particular circumstances in which you give them? Is what you are saying hurtful to someone? Are you intentionally hurting other people to seek attention? If so you might be a bully. Stop and ask yourself if you really think it is worth it. People who are bullied often suffer terribly and in silence. Bullying can even lead to suicide. So before you start to push someone around stop yourself and ask what would it feel like if it were happening to you? People do not deserve abuse!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 14, 2017
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You can see from your act, how do you treat others and interact with others. Some people who bullying are doing bad things to others, to hurt them, being sarcastic and make them down.
Profile: TheFriendInNeed
TheFriendInNeed on Sep 29, 2017
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If you are hurting someone "intentionally" on their weaknesses or feelings through your actions or words either physically or mentally, then that is considered bullying. Usually bullies feel a sense of power over their victims. 1) Sometimes you may think that something as simple as name calling is just for fun, or you might be doing it due to peer pressure, but that fun might be costing someone else's feelings 2) You might be confused between teasing and bullying, normal teasing can be harmless whereas negative teasing can lead to bullying. Positive teasing is usually something that is more friendly and might lead to laughter. Negative teasing on the other hand has the intent to harm and uses a more aggressive tone 3) Sometimes you might be angry at your friend/classmate, and you may say something hurtful out of anger. That does not make you a bully. Anyway, the fact that you are asking this question already shows that you feel remorse and not intending to hurt anyone. Hope my answer helps
Profile: supportiveTouch77
supportiveTouch77 on Oct 28, 2017
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Usually Bullies have experienced Being the victim of bullying themselves. There is no true understanding as to why bullies do what they do. mostly it will be because it has happened to them or if they are going through difficult times and cannot find the correct way to express themselves.
Profile: commandercody209
commandercody209 on Nov 9, 2017
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If you belittle people, or have the intent to hurt people. Your goal in a way would be to over power peoples emotions or physically or mentally hurt the person.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 9, 2017
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You know you are a bully when you don´t respect other peoples life choices and you find yourself enjoying (at any level) hummiliating people without consent. When you hurt people because it makes you feel better about yourself.
Profile: MissNatureNat
MissNatureNat on Nov 11, 2017
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If you are calling somebody names and using words or physical contact to intentionally hurt them. You know if your goal is to upset that person.
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