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Everyone in school thinks I am bitter. How can I change their minds?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 22, 2021
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I can't give you advice because my advice might be wrong. you know what you should do the best. if you really don't know what to do then put it this way: Your friend says that everyone thinks she's bitter. how can she change their mind? This might help. Lots of people think different things and it's probably not right to judge. Everyone think whatever they want but it doesn't mean they're right about it because that's just judgement. Only you, you know yourself best. If your not bitter and you know it then you don't have to prove anything to anyone else
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Profile: Smilethepainsaway
Smilethepainsaway on Apr 28, 2021
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Dear friend, Proving yourself will shot down everyone's mouth. Stay calm when people mock at you. Walk steadfast towards your goal. Someday sure you will reach success. There are various ways to prove yourself. You can either excel at studies. You can go for sports. You can also choose anything you prefer. You can excel at painting ,dancing , singing, etc., There are numerous paths to success. Choose the right one for you. Prove the best of you. You only need a little motivation to walk towards your path. But never lose hope, just remind yourself your ultimate aim, to shut everyone's mouth.
Profile: Adanna8
Adanna8 on Oct 24, 2021
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First of all, don't live based off on people's opinions of you. Do you think you're bitter. If yes, then that's when you'll need to do something. First, I think you should try to keep a relaxed face, if you don't like smiling. Let your guard down a little, don't just build walls around yourself. Try to be more approachable. Let people feel like they can actually talk to you. Smile more. Don't force it. Just try to make yourself happy most of the time, think good thoughts, and you'll be smiling a lot. This is all my opinion though
Profile: blissfulSoul6859
blissfulSoul6859 on Nov 27, 2021
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If that's what they think then that is their fault, they don't know you well enough to actually think that about you and to be able to have a good opinion of you that's true, you don't have to change yourself for people, and especially if they are being toxic to you. To help this and change people's minds find good friends that will accept you for who you are and don't think that about you. If you think about all the negative things that are said to you then think about all the positive in your life. Remember you are worth way more than what people tell you you are. :)
Profile: gentleLove04
gentleLove04 on Jan 12, 2022
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Be kind and open-minded to why they think you are bitter. Ask questions and don't try to defend yourself, just listen to what they have to say and then just smile and thank them. This will allow others to see the true you as a caring and calm person. Also maybe try to stay kind by doing good things for them and not being rude(if they think you may be being rude) about a situation. Just stay calm and move on, don't let what others think to affect you. If you let it affect you, you might come off as bitter.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 27, 2022
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That sounds upsetting. You're not bitter, they probably just don't know you that well. Smiling always helps me when I feel like the people around me are judging me. I understand how frustrating worrying about what other people think can be. Just remember you are the best version of yourself and the people that know you love you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 13, 2022
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Dont let anyone decide who you are, you are the author of your own story Don’t you listen to all that foolish words. You should only listen to your heartbeat and your love to your life you have a heart to learn how you can learn your own skills to be your best life you are and all your own skills you love 💕 and you can learn to do that life skills skills learn more about how your own is and how to do that you can better take care of yourself too much and then go back to school again soon and you will
Profile: uniqueMango45
uniqueMango45 on Jul 27, 2016
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Start being more positive. I've been there - it can be hard to be happy, but if you put in a lot of effort you can feel happier and seem less cynical. Remember, be skeptical - not cynical as one is wary of the value of some things while the other knows the value of nothing.
Profile: Vheax
Vheax on Jul 30, 2016
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Show the school that you are not a bitter person by always keeping a smile on your face and being an example for doing good inside the campus and outside as well! Do not focus on the fact that other people find you bitter. Instead, you should focus on how to make yourself a better person by spreading good vibes and positiveness! They will realize how not-bitter you are before you even know it!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 30, 2016
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You shouldn't try to change how people feel about you, especially if you know you're not bitter. Just be yourself.
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