Everyone in school thinks I am bitter. How can I change their minds?
gracefulPalm90
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Oct 19, 2017
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We cant change other peoples minds because they will do and think what they want. however, we can change how we behave to others and change our attitudes. What is the reason they say you are bitter? would it be ok if you asked for personal feedback from a friend and that way you can have an idea of what to adjust in behavior or maybe change friends if you are doing all that you can
Harriet28
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Nov 8, 2017
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Hey there, that must be really tough to feel as though people think you're bitter, what is it you feel about it?
Anonymous
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Nov 10, 2017
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Try doing small things that make people feel good even if it's just a smile. Being always ready to help with the smallest thing...or a compliment would do
MissNatureNat
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Nov 11, 2017
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Try to do kind acts, even holding the door for someone and smiling at them makes all the difference. If you feel comfortable, try to talk to someone and they will see for themselves what you are really like.
Zivvi
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Nov 19, 2017
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By being kind to everyone! Kindness is received if you give it, so be compassionate to all people, no matter what their gender, sexuality, age, race is.
Anonymous
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Nov 24, 2017
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Is it true? If people are letting you know that you are bitter, can you take a step back and see it from their perspectives? How do you act in school, and what can you do to change?
Anonymous
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Nov 25, 2017
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Going clubs, getting more active in the community& school activitys tend to have more close knit groups.
palan
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Nov 29, 2017
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There are many things you can do to improve your vibe -- do service, meditate, sing, dance, exercise, eat well, do yoga -- but what occurs to me as the basis of all of that is to just like yourself. That helps with a lot of it. Also bitterness can arise when we feel left out of a group (chicken and egg problem), so maybe find some group you can feel included in? It will pass
Nasrz8
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Dec 6, 2017
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Smile a lot, offer help, be friendly by listening and giving compliments, be positive and warm when talking to anyone and most importantly, don't bully or hurt anyone.
MiaKayM
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Dec 8, 2017
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The idea is not to change their minds, but to create your own opinion about yourself. How do YOU feel about you? ...then no one else's opinion matters. They don't know you like YOU know you
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