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Everyone in school thinks I am bitter. How can I change their minds?

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That3one4Anime5friend on Mar 15, 2017
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Don't force them but try and be compassionate to them. Be nice and kind help them in any way of possinle
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Anonymous on Mar 19, 2017
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Try to reflect on why they might think this. Maybe your thoughts and opinions aren't quite bitter but the way you come across while expressing these things is what puts others off. It is important to remember others feelings when we speak. If you have insulted others I would start by apologizing sincerely. Try to be more lighthearted and maybe engage conversation with others and show them that you are interested in their opinions as much as yours!
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MalieMist on Apr 2, 2017
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i know i have a face that turns everyone away. if you do, too, try to change it. if someone looks at you, smile a bit. and most importantly, just show them. it's not very hard, all you have to do is show them how nice you can be and instead of just staring at someone try to make small talk or bring up some conversation.
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Anonymous on Apr 16, 2017
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By opening up a little, and trying to have a more positive attitude toward classmates. Specially communicating with individuals who believe you are bitter and telling them may be helpful in changing their mind.
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politeBike14 on Jun 8, 2017
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You can try to perform random daily acts of kindness, such as holding the door for someone and smiling at them at the same time, or try to help people when you notice that they need help. In time, you are going to see that these acts of kindness are going to change the way people think about you.
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Anonymous on Sep 7, 2019
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Be kind to all those around you, even if a lot of people may be unkind to others, don't follow the crowd. Having a positive attitude and praising other people when they do a good job will help you become a likeable person, don't over do it though because you don't want to become annoying. Criticism isn't something people take kindly too. You may say something that is in fact a honest observation but most of the time a lot of people can't handle the truth so you have to put a lid on it, to learn if its appropriate to make such comments or not.
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Anonymous on Sep 12, 2019
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I understand that you are experiencing some hardships in school but I believe focusing on yourself and reaching out to us is a great way to begin your journey.However changing peoples minds is a serious issue and I can understand your struggle but what would change your mind if you were in their shoes? By thinking about this solution you might find your answer and you should start thinking positively about the things that you’ve done against it like reaching to us and being here facing your problem is a really brave start for you on the road to success
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Anonymous on Sep 13, 2019
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You don't have to satisfy them. Let them think you are. Just be who you are and later on they will see that they are wrong. Remember that you really can not please everyone. They will always find some fault on you. Or maybe they are just jealous of you. That is why they made lies about you. I hope that you understand what I have said. If you want anyone to talk with, I am always here for you. You can talk to me and I will listen to you for sure. Smile. I i i i i i
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Anonymous on Sep 20, 2019
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Showing the happy side of you showing that you are an amazing person that you do not judge them and you do not want to be judged and return make friends smile be joyful showing that you are not a better person with a wonderful person with a wonderful personality. If that does not work just listen to people mimic their personalities see if you are truly coming across as being better overdrawn if you are change find that happy medium where are you are you but you’re also accessible and friendly to others. Remember you have to be happy but strive to make other people happy as long as it does not affect your happiness in return for the most important person is you
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lov3TheW0rld on Oct 18, 2019
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You can begin by helping around in class, or showing your support to others in situations. Try hanging around other people more, or doing generally kind things to others and yourself. Also, be kind to yourself, try not to be harsh to others as it could contribute to the beliefs. Try to just be your true self, and remember to smile 😊. Just try some of these things depending on your situation, and just try to stay optimistic. Eventually, people will realize that you are not bitter and you will have nothing to worry about anymore 😊 I hope that I could help in anyway!
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