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Will I ever find someone else to love me?

Profile: SoulfulButterfly
SoulfulButterfly on Aug 22, 2019
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Yes, you will. When my first relationship ended, I didn't think I'd never find someone else to love me, but I did. It wasn't always long term, but the love was there and it helped me realise that there are multiple people out there who will love me. There are also multiple people out there who will love you. You just need to be patient and give it time. Rome wasn't built in a day, and you won't find love in day. While you wait for someone else to love you, don't forget about all the amazing people in your life that already love you (even if it's not in the way you want).
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Anonymous on Aug 23, 2019
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You will. There are so many people on this world. There will be someone who loves you for you. Treasure you for your smiles and your love. If someone left they weren't the right person for you. Something better is coming. After my heartbreak I took it hard. But I realised I would have lost myself being with that person. It happened for a reason. I learnt things, I made memories. But that wasn't the right person. I will be with someone born for me. Love is endless. The right person will come along one day just have to wait.
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AmethystRayne96 on Sep 25, 2019
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Yes, you will find someone else to love you. Sometimes after we have loved someone and something comes in between the relationship, we feel that there may be no one else out there that loves us the same way. There is most certainly someone else out there for you, and you will find your way to each other. It is totally normal to feel this way, and I have been there myself in the past. Just remember, you are not un-lovable. The right person is out there, and they may even be wondering the same thing that you are.
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ZR07 on Oct 12, 2019
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You will find love it just takes a while sometimes you know see it as a journey you rise and you fall but as long as you stand back up you will reach the end of that journey and at the end of that journey you will find what your looking for 😊you really will. And he/she will be perfect for you and only for you. The longer you have to wait the more amazing he/she will be. Just never give up, always stand back up cause he's/she's out there waiting for you and that person is also looking for you. Remember that😊 keep strong, keep fighting and never give up cause you'll find what your looking for.
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MsKendra on Oct 24, 2019
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Loneliness can be incredibly debilitating. I've found it to be a heavy pressure that is hard to find the light in. When I have wondered if someone will ever love me, I used to think that meant I needed to find someone to love me. I don't think that anymore. When I feel lonely and find myself wondering if someone else will ever love me, I use that thought as a reminder that I need more self-love. It's my own love for me that is lacking when I start to feel deeply isolated, lonely or unlovable. I do things that are loving toward me. That could be pampering, taking a bath or painting my nails. It could be taking a stand for myself with someone else and being assertive, and that shows me more self-love. I value myself and the breath I am taking and the deep lonely feeling fades away.
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Yourlifeisworthy on Oct 24, 2019
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You will! I'm sure of that, but that's not as important as loving yourself, if you love your self first of all, you will be able to identify more easy unhealthy realtionship/friendship and run away from it. You won't have to do so much effort to love someone if you love first. You will know exactly what you want in all your relations (romantic or friend type) and what you don't want at all, what you deserve, what sacrifices are you be able/willing to make, what things you can bear and how much support you can give. Also, you know your boundaries and know how to talk about them in an assertive way with other people. And the most important thing, you won't never feel lonely again because you always have yourself, you are the only person that will be you all the time and never be apart, so if you are be able of become your best friend, you won't need anybody else, you will choose them to walk with you through the life path but you will know they are free to change their path and not accompany you anymore and that's okay, some person will walk you forever but even your love partner can choose other path away from you (or the life can choose it for him/her) and you will be okay
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Anonymous on Nov 13, 2019
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Time will tell. Love isn't always the answer. Who knows? Somebody you like may like you to? And Yes, you will find someone. Someone very special. If you have a crush, put yourself out there no matter how shy you are. Take the chance and the worst thing that will happen is a 'no'. Stay strong is my ego. I may not be strong but I love myself for who I am. Love yourself for who you are. You'll love someone for who they are, not how hot or attractive they are. That is true love. Love takes time and patience
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Wannahelp1319 on Nov 14, 2019
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Yes I guess we can. There is no time and age for love to happen. I feel if you still fee that you have not found a right person who really loves you and cares for you then I guess you still have a chance. Life is full of surprises and we really don’t know what's gonna happen with us tomorrow. So I guess there is still hope that we can still find someone else to love you. We should always be positive and then only positive things will happen with us. So lets just keep our fingers crossed and wait.
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Anonymous on Nov 27, 2019
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There are many people out there who probably love you right now. Not all love has to come from a partner. The love of friends can be just as, if not more fulfilling than the love of a partner. But to the point of finding love with a partner, don't force anything. Love comes naturally, and often where we least expect it. Live your life to the fullest, find love yourself in small things, and when you do meet that person with whom things click, you'll know it. Love will always find someone more than once, you just have to be willing to see it, and accept it, without forcing it.
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BrotherK999 on Jan 15, 2020
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Yeah definitely, just cause it didn’t work out with someone doesn’t mean u won’t find the perfect person, trust me the right one for you is out there and there looking for you too just don’t give up hope and be yourself there’s over 7 billion people in this word just cause one or two relationships didn’t work doesn’t mean that any other one won’t work either you just gotta find someone that you can be yourself with and that you can share memories and have a good time with and I believe in your and your journey, good luck
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sunshinecxpher on Feb 13, 2020
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well, what I learned was you will only ever find someone else to love you when you start loving yourself, when you know that you are enough, when you know that you don’t need somebody else to complete you, when you see yourself as the only person you ever need to love you, when you start loving yourself how you want to be loved and treated and trust me, that is the only thing that matters. Start loving yourself for however you are and love will find you. You will get someone else who loves you just the way you want to be loved.
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Anonymous on Feb 21, 2020
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I've asked myself this question so many times in my life. Crying whilst praying relentlessly to God that a romantic partner appear into my life. I can definitely relate to these words and this feeling so very much. In my experience, many times, my next partner came along at the right time, exactly when I needed it. At other times, I've found that people who aren't so great for me came along, and still I learned something from them despite our connection not being a long-term fit. Other times, I've found partners come in, only to realize that I could've focused more on my personal growth before we came together so that I could've been in a better place to help our relationship as a whole. Ultimately its helping me learn the value of self love, so that I can not only learn to choose a partner who is compatible for me, but I can also learn how to nurture a relationship that offers more happiness for myself and the other person.
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Anonymous on Mar 8, 2020
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Yes, you will. There will always be one person in the world that was made for you. Your other half. You may not think you may find one now, but I believe you will one day. Have faith, keep your head up. The only way you will be sure of you, finding your perfect other half is to keep going. Never give up. You will reach your goals one day. Have faith! Good luck and I believe in you! There are always other people out there to keep you company. In conclusion, you will find someone. Maybe not now, but one day. For now, enjoy your time being single.
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aburninglight56 on Mar 14, 2020
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i believe you will. Love is not something that would only come in one way or form, let alone the fact that it might come form one person. So yeah. You will move on. You may even forget some part of the past. Because even if we don't want to believe it, time does heal things. If not completely then partially. After some time, the hurt hurts less. sometimes we need to forget what we feel and remember what we deserve. So i must say, if the thing is out of you hands, then it deserves freedom from your mind too. In the end, i hope you find your infinity, your eternal, your everlasting someone who might show you the limitless and unconditional love...
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Anonymous on Mar 15, 2020
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Yes definitely, falining in love doesn't mean that love itself doesn't exist anymore. Never go behind love, love will only come searching to you one or other day. Always make sure that love from opposite person is equal towards you too little will harm and too much also harm. And also be strong enough to accept a person even when you feel that he/she is loving in lesser way. Each and every individual is different in expressing and reacting. As long as opposite person if genuine and good try not to expect anytg from them treat them well as how they are accept them as how they are. When there are less expectation and more understanding than you will always get love.
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Anonymous on Mar 15, 2020
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Of course. Love yourself first and on that way you will know what kind of love you deserve 😊. It's hard to wait, but you will be happy when you get what you need. Do not try to find anybody if you know what you want and what you need. Do not punish yourself with person you do not like. Be patient, be careful, be happy. Work on yourself while you can. Also if all of your friends have somebody, that doesn't define you. Do not be like others just to fit in. You deserve more than you can imagine. 😊
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Anonymous on Apr 10, 2020
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I've worried about this in my life too. It gets better though. There will always be someone out there who respects and love you, wether that be as a significant other or a friend. Try to put yourself out there and you will find someone. But the most important thing that you can do is love yourself, so be nice. There will always be people out there who love you. Wether its friends or family, you will be able to find someone. Just look for people who have similar interests to you to bond about, and I'm sure that you will be able to find someone to love every bit of you.
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Anonymous on Apr 23, 2020
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Loving a person takes time you first start by knowing them and gradually fall in love so when you break up or you can't be with that person for some reason moving on is hard but then when you improve yourself or focus on other things that makes it a bit easier than it was before and one day you do find the one. You might think now that you don't deserve love for some reason but you do. You are an amazing person I know you have flaws so do I but we'll always have people who'll love us accepting all our flaws and helping us to be a better person
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enchantingSky79 on Apr 24, 2020
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Yes but it takes time and it might require you to work on your self confidence. You can start by loving yourself and being confident in yourself, this also takes time. If you love yourself, other people will love you too or at least it will be easier for them to love you since not having confidence is a turn off. I think that telling yourself you have confidence in your abilities (even when you don’t or your confidence is low) helps you have confidence in yourself in the future. It is a bit of fake it until you make it but talking to a therapist and exploring why you don’t have confidence in yourself and why you think nobody will love you is also important.
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Anonymous on May 3, 2020
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Yes. First of all, always think positively. Although it may sound easier to beat yourself up and criticise yourself, looking on the bright side is the best way to start things. Second, make it a necessity, or maybe even a priority to love yourself first. Think about all of the wonderful things that make you unique. Finally, always bear in mind that since you love yourself, you are lovable. When a person is lovable, they are bound to find someone else who will love them and respect them as individuals. So, yes; you will find someone who will love you because you are lovable and thinking so makes it easier on yourself. One last thing I want to mention is that, at most times, you dont need to find that person; they find you.
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