Why is he ignoring me after breakup?
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Detelinzy
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Aug 12, 2018
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Maybe he still isn't over you and he doesn't want to hurt you or himself by communicating or spending time with you.
raindrop333
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Jun 26, 2016
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While we can't know for sure, it's probably because he thinks it's time you got some distance so that you don't make rushed decisions to get back to together if you're not ready to do so (either side).
annakx
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Jul 20, 2016
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It depends on the way you guys parted ways. It can be possible that he is doing it because he is trying to get over it, trying to move on. Maybe you should think that his behaviour is for the best too. Think what's going to bring you more happiness x
ItsAlyssa
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Jul 28, 2016
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He obviously moved on or is trying to move on just give him his space and try to keep yourself happy and dont let it affect you just value your self and who you are
ListenerToHelp
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Aug 6, 2016
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He may be angry, or just not wanting to talk. He may want some space or time to think. The breakup may have been harsh for him.
lightandsea
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Aug 17, 2016
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I have found that people process breakups differently - a former boyfriend of mine needed a lot of space to sort through his emotions, and that turned out to be very good for him. It was really difficult at the time and easy to get into my head and down on myself about, but now looking back I know for sure that he was just trying to do what was right for him.
Anonymous
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Aug 28, 2016
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He probably isn't or wasn't as interested and invested as you were in the relationship so he has "moved on". He would probably come back when you get over him...
Anonymous
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Aug 31, 2016
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Breakups are traumatic to a person. It is quite close to dealing with death since you don't (try not to) see your ex again. Also, everyone takes breakups differently. And maybe your ex bf is taking it very hard and want to avoid you since it reminds you of the hear break.
JudyMoonshine
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Sep 4, 2016
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Everyone does something different when they breakup. Distance and "ghosting" seems to be the current trend, rather than confront the other person about the breakup. It is not mature, but it happens a lot.
Anonymous
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Sep 22, 2016
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It's either he really wanted you out of his life or he just feels better without you. It could also be that he has no intentions of getting back together
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