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Beyoutifulgrin22357 on May 12, 2020
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Without knowing more, he might just want space as he knows that there is no future between the two of you. If you are broken up, he might be hurt and not want to be around you or talk to you anymore because it's too fresh and hurts him right now. It would also depend on who broke up with who. If he broke up with you, he might have already mentally moved on and no longer wants to be around you. If you broke up with him, he might be too hurt to talk to you or might not see a point in talking to you anymore.
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Anonymous on May 17, 2020
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Well there are so many reasons why a guy is ignoring you after the breakup, but bein' upset or overthinking won't solve it. To deal with it first you need to calm yourself down and re-analyze the possible reasons why your ex is ignoring you. The reason could be any and varies on the situation that on which grounds your breakup was done. I'm listing down various possible reason (based on my personal experience) why an ex ignores:- 1. He needs some space. 2. He's upset with you over a thing and want to make you realize. 3. He want you feel his importance in your life. 4. Might be has moved on or has find something more interested than you. 5. He is dealing with job issues, stress, family issues, etc. So it's better to give him some time and maintain a "No-contact" rule for sometime 'cuz chasing him further will make him go away. If he truly loved you, he'll come back to you. So be optimistic and deal wisely with the situation.
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OptimisticFish on May 22, 2020
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It depends on the nature on the breakup amongst other things. Different people take breakups in a different way and approach their feelings and emotions in their own ways. He could be feeling low or he could be trying to process it all. From my experience, break-ups are naturally rough and I like to take time out for myself to focus on how I can heal and what I want to do going forward. He will not ignore you forever. If he isn't replying to you, just let him know you're there for you him if he wants to chat and tell him how you feel and leave him to process it and come back to you in his own time.
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Anonymous on May 22, 2020
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A break up is a very difficult time in two people's lives. After being together for a long time and understanding the other person at such an intimate level, there are a lot of conflicting feelings that come when you break up. That being said, it is important that both people in the relationship take some time for themselves in order to focus on themselves during this difficult time. He is probably ignoring you to do just this. He wants to not only be able to focus on himself but also be able to move on and develop his relationship with others.
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jrdraft on May 28, 2020
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There are many reasons people ignore one another after a break up. Sadly, many times they ignore us because they feel guilty. Perhaps they feel like they didn't handle it in the right manner, hurt your feelings, or wasted time. Sometimes, they simply feel awkward and aren't sure how to act around you until a new "normal" can be established. Other times, there are hurt feelings and the feelings are just to raw right afterwards. Communication is key; tell the person you're just not ready to talk and it may take some time for you to feel comfortable enough to get to that point.
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Samantha1717 on Jun 3, 2020
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Breakups are never easy for either party, and it doesn't matter if an individual wanted to breakup or not. Sometimes individuals who just broke up need some time to heal. This will include distancing themselves from the other person both physically and emotionally. This will require not connecting with the other person in-person and virtually. Although this may be a big change from when the two of you were together, it is a good method to dealing with a breakup. Now is a good time to connect with friends and family. Reach out to them as I'm sure they will be there to support you.
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Reddy on Jun 25, 2020
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Because you broke up. Not being harsh at all but sometimes when a relationship ends, people need time to themselves to re-evaluate their life, their goals and that can take time. And sometimes while in an ideal world it would be nice if we could all stay friends with our ex, its not always the same for everyone. Maybe its too painful, maybe they just need to move on - everyone is different and handles the ending of a relationship differently to how we would like. There are so many different reasons why people react to whatever situation they are in (or have left) and it may or may not be the reason we think and that can hurt but more often than not - its unintentional, they have moved on. And that "moving on' process is different for everyone.
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Anonymous on Jun 26, 2020
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Depending on the circumstances of the breakup he may either be hurting or needs space to heal. Breakups are hard in general so sometimes space is best at first. It is important to focus on healing and doing things that are right for you and will help you. After some time has passed maybe you can reach out again to check up on him as a friend and maybe see if that is something he would be interested in. If he does not want to be friends then, of course, it will sting but ultimately you need to respect that.
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Anonymous on Jul 8, 2020
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Probably because he doesn't want to face any emotions and he is scared of remembering the happy moments he had with you. I don't want to build my argument on stereotypes but it's pretty common that guys have more difficulties in facing emotions than girls. It'll probably take some time for him to be ready to face your past together. Take thinks slow and wait for him to work on his feelings and thoughts. I'm pretty sure he will feel ready eventually, just wait and see. In case he doesn't come back to talk eventually, it means that he's still a child in his mind.
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xcharlottex45 on Jul 17, 2020
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He might just be overwhelmed with all of the emotions he is going through after the break up. Everyone is different, so people will cope differently to one situation then a other. Don’t get offended if he doesn’t talk to you after the break up. Give him some time and he will be back to his normal self again. For now you can get control over how you are feeling and take care of yourself and not worry about how he is feeling, this moment in time. I am sure he will message you when he is ready. :)
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