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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2019
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Breakups can be very hard to go through. Most of the people need time to recover, and sometimes that involves not thinking about the person you just had a breakup with. Maybe he isn't doing it intentionally, he could be trying to recover. It takes time to recover for a breakup. I would recommend to distract yourself and think about something else, as that can help you recover yourself too. Try doing activities you like, watch a movie, or get an ice cream with your friends. Self-care is important and soon you will thank yourself. It is a process.
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Profile: peacefulSunrise5464
peacefulSunrise5464 on Dec 8, 2019
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It’s hard not to look back, not to go back to the relationship you just put an end to. Even if he broke up, it may be hard not to act as he did when you were together. He may need some time on his own, to think about what he’s supposed to do and who he’s supposed to be now you are not together anymore. It may take some time for him to go back to you as a friend... but you need to accept that he may be uncomfortable with going back to you, and he may not come back. It can prove too hard, too painful to start a new relationship with someone you broke up with. Do the same thing: think about where you’ll be off to, and do the necessary work to go forward
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 15, 2019
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When my ex dumped me the main question that soared through my mind was 'why?'. That question consumed my entire life. Whilst studying, excessing, hanging out with friends and family and really, almost everything. I needed to get over him, or rather, the emotional attachment I had to him. Many people deal with that de-latching differently; however, the way I dealt with it was by ignoring him. Cold-turkey in a way, completely cutting him out of my life. I attempted to erase the memory of him. Eventually, I found peace and harmony in who I was and re-discovered my goals. With this 're-discovery' came strength and I gained ability to speak to him again without the harsh 'why' question rubbing my brain. It may not be the best solution, but it helps in some cases.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 28, 2019
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There are many reasons for why this can be the case. Maybe he is looking for a period to cool down and gather his emotions and thoughts. This may be a form of coping for him, as he tries to understand his actions. Not everyone handles breakups well, especially if one was emotionally invested in a relationship. However, it is important to understand that he may be struggling himself. Perhaps, consider letting time heal emotionally salient wounds and reconnecting at a later if you care about his well being. Essentially, follow up once you think it's a reasonable time to reconnect.
Profile: lovelyrainyevening
lovelyrainyevening on Jan 3, 2020
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Break ups are hard for both people in the relationship. If he has decided that the best thing for him is to get over you and move on, he might need space to achieve that. Getting over an ex is different for every person . For some people it is easier by keeping contact with the person and knowing that they are doing okay. But for others, trying to cut that person out of their lives is the best option. So in your situation I would say that he is most likely trying to get over you so that he can heal from the breakup
Profile: FrostWire
FrostWire on Jan 9, 2020
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Hey there; I'm Frostwire, and welcome to 7 Cups. Why Does it befit a person to ignore a past relationship partner? Let's ask five questions to assess the idea; sha'll we? What was the cause of the break up? How long has it been since the break up? Is this person actually the one; or, is he just a ride to exstacy? I believe in the power of emotions. Emotions can cause disturbance in most males lives. It's not the same as an annoying little brother or sister but; its totally what most guys use to abstractly figure what they feel torwards there spouse. Just like any relastionship, they are in need of time to think about themselves. But during these times i would highly advise that you not give to much time to be replaced with something else in his mind. THanks for reaching out to 7 Cups; I'm Frostwire, your friendly supporting listener.
Profile: bellarina74
bellarina74 on Feb 1, 2020
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Sometimes it is easier to deal with your emotions if you do not have to face the situation causing the anxiety in the first place. This is not always a healthy option though. Sooner or later whatever the issue may be will need to be faced. To be able to move forward you often need clarification around why some situations are transpiring. You can’t always control these situations and you just need to do your best to make the best of any given situation. Things will not always fall into place as you want them to and sometimes you need to be flexible with how you respond or action things.
Profile: HazelGreen88
HazelGreen88 on Feb 6, 2020
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He is trying to clear his mind and life of the loss of the relationship also. Both sides are affected in some way. It is probably for the best for both if avoiding each other. Keep the peace and pray for each other. Send helpful advocates their way to help in any way that they can to see that they are able to deal with the stress and not alone doing it. It is always best to look out for someone at a distant than to leave them alone. Always be kind. Never cause stress. They are counting on the help.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 5, 2020
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There are multiple reasons that he is ignoring you after breaking up. Could be that he is trying to move on from you. Ignoring you will help him heal and forget your memories together. Second reason is that he actually did not like you before breaking up so he found breaking up a good chance to ignore you. Third option is that you hurt him emotionally during the relationship so he is ignoring you after breakup so he doesn't get in any fights with you. Or there is no reason for him to keep in touch with you. There could be many reasons he is ignoring you after the break up. I do hope you can find your way on healing and moving on to.
Profile: blitzEmpathy
blitzEmpathy on Mar 12, 2020
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If you initiated the breakup, then he's hurt and trying to forget about you. If he did, willingly, then he's trying to avoid any situation that'll make you feel he wants you back so he can move on with his life without hurting you more. If he's ignoring you to move on, then he is finding it difficult to forget about you. You need to give him space so he doesn't keep hope alive when he should move on. If he is the one not hurt, then he's trying to have as little contact with you as possible so you can move on quickly. That way, his conscience will free him to do whatever he wants.
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