Why is he ignoring me after breakup?

If the relationship is over it sounds like he is keeping his distance for his sake as well as yours. Take sometime for yourself this week and do things you enjoy. Spend time getting to re discover yourself as well as reconnecting with people you may have cut ties with when you were in the relationship. Read a book, write, draw. Go for a walk. Learn to knit or crochet. Spend time journaling and writing down your feelings. Know that you will be able to go out and meet new people that you could not meet before you broke up.

In a relationship each person involved has a right to stop seeing another person or even talking to another person. This can be a friendship or a marriage. We can choose as people who we can and can not speak to. It is better this way because it assures our safety weather it be mentally or physically. I understand that may be rough but we are complex people and if someone decides to not speak to us for what ever reason that does not mean we are a bad person, it does not summarize who were are as a person. We are very complex, these relationships end this way for many reasons that can't be summed up by a quick answer. Use this as an opportunity to grow as a person and learn from this experience.

I feel that he is trying to distance himself as a coping method. Breakups can be messy, sad, and angry. He is trying to get over the sadness of the breakup by not having any contact with you. I know it feels bad or like you did something wrong, but you didn't, he is just trying to get over you. Maybe he will block you on social media or cut all lines of contact, this is how most people go about trying to get over exs after a breakup. He probably experiencing many mixed emotions and doesn't want to stay dwelling in sadness over the breakup. It is completely normal.

*This is if he broke up with you* Usually after a guy break up with a girl, he will stopping talking to her. There are two main reasons for this. One, because he might be feeling guilty about the breakup. He may know the distress it is causing you and want to avoid akward conversation. Over time he will probably start talking to you again. Second, he may also be trying to get over the breakup. Even if he did it, it could of still effected him. If this is the case, he will also probably start talking after a little bit just like in case one. Hope I helped!

Breakups can be a difficult situation to cope with. If he is ignoring you after your recent break up, he is probably just trying to process and cope with the whole situation. Maybe talking to you would put more stress on him for the time being. I think he may just need some time to process the whole thing. Maybe just give him some space. When he's ready, maybe he'll come back and talk to you again! It's important to make sure that you are okay as well after a break up. Maybe also just take some time to focus on yourself and make sure you are coping well with the situation also. Your mental health is just as important as his!

I’ve been here, done that and have gone through that. In my personal experience, the reason has always been the same one: trying to move on. Of course, that can be combined with the feeling of anger, disappointment, betrayal, or something in between. But your ex partner is probably focusing all of it into just trying to move on. Does that mean that he’s over you and that he suddenly has no feelings for you anymore? Of course not. It is probably very difficult for him to not talk to you anymore and ignore you, regardless of the emotions he’s experiencing due to the breakup. But that’s just his coping mechanism. Or at least it had been in my experience so far.

Maybe you just need some time apart, that’s normal after a breakup. You might just need to wait a little before you start engaging in activities again. After you feel like it has been enough time for your opinions about each other to repair; maybe try a social activity, try to contact him on social media, do something that he likes, go somewhere you know he will be, have a friendly conversation. Who knows? Maybe you can get back to a romantic relationship if you feel that way about each other. Hopefully this will help your situation

The biggest fear shared by people that are victims of a breakup is losing their ex forever; and I completely understand your suffering and your desire to reestablish communication with your ex. take a moment to really think about whether or not he’s actually ignoring you. Can you pinpoint what exactly is making you feel this way? For example, was he easier to reach before and now suddenly it seems like an impossible feat? Did they give you concrete reasons to believe, “He avoids me when I reach out..?” Could it be that this person is actually just extremely busy with work and it’s not actually personal? Sometimes we meet someone at a time during which they are more available than usual. For example, when they’re in between jobs. When real life comes back into play, they are no longer as available. If your gut is saying, “No, he really is ignoring me,” then it’s time to look at the reasons behind it. Understanding why your ex is ignoring you helps you to get to the root of the problem and subsequently points you in the right direction.

Maybe he didn't loved you or maybe he wants some space from you so that might be the reason he is ignoring you. Please stay strong and get yourself occupied with other things rather than thinking about him.

Sometimes when a partner ignores their former flame after a break-up it can feel strange and hurtful. This is normal, considering when you were together it was likely communication was a regular, comfortable and ongoing exchange, so the transition to no communication can feel unsettling. Sometimes that just often how someone copes, it's not always personal, depending on what happened in the relationship sometimes seizing all contact helps the person move on and protect their emotions with boundaries. It's not always a negative thing. Ask yourself, are you wanting to move forward? If so then having no contact can be helpful for you to, especially if you'd like to enter into another relationship later on in the future. If you're not the one who wanted to break up and do want things to work, it could be a sign that your former partner needs space and right now is just not a good time to discuss anything.