Why is he ignoring me after breakup?
303 Answers
Moderated by Anna Pavia, psicologa psicoterapeuta psychotherapist psychologist counselor
Updated: Aug 24, 2020
intelligentBeauty89
on
Apr 5, 2018
...read more
Maybe he needs time to process his own feelings. But it’s a breakup so contact isn’t needed unless kids are involved.
Anonymous
on
Apr 5, 2018
...read more
from my own personal experience being ignored after breakups and simply for us to grow and understand that we must learn to sometimes be stronger even when we are left out in the cold it is teaching us to grow in the hardest way possible many times people don't want anything to do with us. Because we are too overwhelming for them. We definitely have to look back and reflect on our own selves simply because we need to see that the problems are indeed very big and we need to learn to identify recognize and accept that we do have a problem that we need to work on ourselves
Anonymous
on
Apr 6, 2018
...read more
It was based on my personal experience. My ex-boyfriend ignored me after breakup. He was the one who cut all the ties. But I think he needs time to heal his broken heart and communicating with me is not the best option to do. After all he loved me when we still together so it will break his heart when we breakup.
Anonymous
on
Apr 7, 2018
...read more
he probably doesn't want to contact you anymore or doesn't know if it's appropriate.
i suggest not being pushy about it because that could be awkward & problematic.
contact him & if he shows signs of disinterest then it's probably time to step away.
don't give him attention if he doesn't give you any. any relationship takes two to tango.
at the end of the day, you know yourself best & you know the situation better than anyone else.
notsureletseeyo
on
Apr 12, 2018
...read more
Because he wants do get over you. It would probably be easier for you too if you do the same. Keep in touch in a respecful manner, but don't get nostalgic with him.
Anonymous
on
Apr 14, 2018
...read more
He may need a break to handle what just happened. Break ups are a very serious thing and each individual takes it differently. Just let him know that your their for him and care for him if he needs you. That way not only does he have someone to talk to you can spend time with him and try to work things out if that's what you want.
Anonymous
on
Apr 22, 2018
...read more
He might need some time to be normal again. He might also be maintaining a safe distance as to not to hurt you out of lonliness and rage. Or it might just be too difficult for him to stay friends with someone he loved.
Kayaondra02
on
May 5, 2018
...read more
Give him some time to cool down. Break ups are hard. Depending on what happened, he may not want to talk to you right now.
CursesAndMagic
on
May 18, 2018
...read more
Sometimes people need total break of contact after a breakup. It’s often difficult to remain friends after a breakup but in time this is sometimes possible. Maybe he needs space to process thoughts, feelings and emotions.
SupportiveSockMonkey
on
May 19, 2018
...read more
It might be because he's dealing with the information. Sometimes it's best to give eachother space as it can be a big change in someones life. They may also be hurting or trying to cope with the situation. Some individuals after a breakup cannot remain friends and maybe that's could be how he feels.
Talk to an expert therapist
Counseling is about making changes you seek in your life. It is a place that...
Talk to Stacy NowI still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
416 Answers
How long does it take to get over someone?
393 Answers
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
370 Answers
My boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with me, how can I change their mind?
347 Answers
What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
322 Answers
Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?
317 Answers