Why is he ignoring me after breakup?
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Moonboii
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Apr 28, 2017
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Because he doesn't want to get distracted. Usually practical guys tend to bury their past relationships and move on with life. It does not mean the guy hates his ex, its just about looking ahead rather than backwards.
MontyDog
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Apr 30, 2017
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There's a chance that he's ignoring you after the breakup because that's his way of coping with the situation. Regardless of who initiated the breakup or if it was mutual, it can be a very upsetting experience and he may just want to try and keep to himself with it.
avanef
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May 3, 2017
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He might be moving on from you and everything from you. I know it hurts to hear that, but after people stop being exclusive, unless they are making the effort to be friends or stay in contact, then they usually take the time to move on from you. It's probably best though. I know it hurts you a whole lot, but darling you'll be okay.
Maranda4You
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May 5, 2017
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It depends on his position in the break up. If he left you, it's a sign of no interest and that could be it. If you left him then he may just be to devastated to speak to you, afraid that a simple hello would remind him of old times and make him cry.
MrEthical5241
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May 7, 2017
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That's a sign that he may want to move on. The time will come if he wants to remain friends with you but for now, it's best you to do your own thing and pursue on your dreams. :)
Anonymous
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Jun 9, 2017
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Breakups can cause lots of emotions from anger, sadness, etc. and as he deals with not being with you any more than he needs time to himself. Eventually, the emotional pain will heal and he will be able to be around you.
Anonymous
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Jul 1, 2017
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The breakup might be a little awkward for him. I would try asking him about it, and see what he says.
Anonymous
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Jul 9, 2017
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After a break up you need time to cool down and think about what is been happening, give each other time and space
ImaginationIsKey
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Aug 10, 2017
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Sometimes it's too hard to face someone you loved so you try to cut off contact. You feel it's easier to just not see them at all and to not being up old memories. Sometimes it's good to talk about it though.
Anonymous
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Aug 11, 2017
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From experience its sometimes because he just needs some space to figure things out for him self and he could be ignoring you because he may want Some space from you
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