Why does my girlfriend hate me all of a sudden?
Anonymous
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Dec 25, 2019
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Well if you want it from a random someone's girlfriends point of view then the following reasons are possible.
1. You are talking to a girl she doesn't like.
2. You did something wrong.
3 . You changed .
4. You forgot a special occasion that is dear to her .
5. You did something that she hates with all her heart but never told you so you aren't at fault but you have to suffer the consequence .
6. She has some problem with one of your family members.
7. She think you are cheating on her even though you aren't .
8. Or she just found someone else .
And if you can't relate to any of these then yours is a special situation and I wish you best of luck .
courageousHope62
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Aug 16, 2018
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First of all its imperative to know that in general people will always be people and how they feel towards certain things is not always permanent and therefore is susceptible to change.
Its however also important to fully understand her present circumstances as that may also have a bearing on her feelings towards you. Many a times a sudden change of heart can be a result of bottled up feelings over a period of time which she might have been failing to express or let out. Nonetheless her past life is equally important to understand before you can start blaming yourself.
Anonymous
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Aug 24, 2018
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Did you ask her? Try to remember you did something maybe it's because of that. If you didn't do anything maybe you've forgotten something like a birthday, monthsary/anniversary. Remember that she probably have a reason to get mad at you. Some girls tend to be like that when they see you talking to other girls, your forgetting a special occasion, you did something that made them mad, she saw something that you did that she doesn't like, you said something very mean and hurt her feelings. To make her stop hating you maybe try buying her food and give her some love and support.
Anonymous
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Sep 9, 2018
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Maybe she doesnt hate you. Maybe she is just scared or confused, but doesnt know how to channel these emotions. Try to assure her about your emotions and intentions. Ask her did you do maybe something unintentionally wrong, did you say something. Or, maybe, she is seeking for attention, for help in something but she's embarrassed to talk about it. Encourage her to tall to you. Maybe you will find out something new about her, or even about yourself, about emotions and struggles in your lifes.
Noone cannot just hate someone all of a sudden. I hope it will end well, for both of you.
Anonymous
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Oct 4, 2018
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If a person is realizing a sudden change in their partners actions and feelings then they might want to talk to their partner about it. When talking to them, they should always ask if they are doing something to provoke them for feeling that way. If they claim that nothing is wrong with the other person then it might be a good time to ask if something else is going on that is upsetting them. Sometimes what happens is people will have alot going on in their life and take it out on the wrong person.
Anonymous
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Oct 26, 2018
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It is important what happened differently in recent times. If is a major change that you are being through of maybe you have a difficult discussion with her, that it is still unsolved. Also, it is important to ask her if she is going through a difficult time (a job/school/college). Maybe is hard to be patient and clam right now, but all of these will pass.
Negative emotions are a normal part of life that you ahve to conform with, they could be constructive and with a positive outcome from all of these. Stay strong and remember it is all part of life.
Anonymous
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Nov 8, 2018
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It all depends, sometimes we have break ups but you may have a make up. Maybe rumours went around, maybe she feels she needs time apart. No madder what it always turns out right, if she breaks up that just means you will find some one else that loves you even more! But always no you could kinda be wrong, you can't say she hates you without proof, I mean your pro bully right but maybe your a bit off maybe something happened in her home life that does not involve you and she needed some time alone, no matter what I can't tell you for sure what the answer is.
ElizabethBella
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Jan 24, 2020
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Honestly there could be logical reasons why she seems off lately. I think first, you should talk with her about it. If she is upset about you asking, try to analyze her life lately. Has she been going through a lot? Is she experiencing some sort of stress in her own personal life? Be open and talk with her privately. Make sure she knows that you're there for her and love her no matter what as well. If she doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about her problems right now, just give her the space she needs. Be supportive! It may not be a YOU problem. :)
Kristinakogaa
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Feb 21, 2020
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From my personal experience, it could be that your girlfriend is pushing you away because she’s hurting or is feeling insecure. I had the same issue of never feeling like I was enough for my significant other so pushing him away was a way to counteract being hurt. Let her know how much she means to you and bring up the conversation. Say what you feel that will be best for the situation. There’s always a possibility she was informed bad news and is taking it out on you. Whatever is happening in her life whether she decides to confide to you, be there for her!
Junemoone
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Sep 18, 2020
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I don't believe things occur all of a sudden, there are things that would have been happening around you and her that might not have been noticed, but when it toll on her she would have started disliking you. Did you notice and evaluate your responsibility and your contribution to the relation, if not take some time out to do that, you will surely get the answer to it. Or maybe something in her own life would be going on which triggered everything in her life and that's why she has been reacting in this way. Try and talk to her, things will get better.
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