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Why does my girlfriend hate me all of a sudden?

Profile: Demetri221
Demetri221 on Nov 12, 2020
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She may not hate you but you may want to talk to her. Talking to her may show that you actually care about what's wrong. Just let her know what you are there. It helps if you two talk things out because, talking helps everyone out if you do it correctly. Let here speak her mind and make sure you listen to everything she says. You may start to understand why she is acting the way she is. There could be a big problem and if you hear her out you may be able to help her out just a bit.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 21, 2021
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Well maybe she doesn't hate you but hate the way you act or something that you do. We tend to think if someone changes with us that this mean they hate us but if we focus it can be that something is bothering them so my advice is that you try to help her but also give her here own space. The best thing to do is to wait until she tells you what is the matter but if she don't talk try soflty to tell here that no matter what you well always support her and that it's okay.
Profile: heavenlyHug9328
heavenlyHug9328 on Mar 18, 2021
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What has changed between you guys or your routine. There is a possibility that you have done something that has upset her or something either work related or personal is wrong and she wouldn't like to express her feelings and would rather not say what is bothering her. It would be best to create a safe place for her to be able to express herself without feeling pressure. Be patient and get her to confide in you about what is wrong and express your concerns that you feel like she hates you and what is it you can do differently.
Profile: yourhappyspace33
yourhappyspace33 on Apr 28, 2021
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Well, what made you think she hates you? Because hate, my friend is a very strong word. She might be disappointed or might be just stressed with her own personal circumstances. Did you try to talk to her and ask her about what is she been through these days? She might be waiting for you to figure out and ask her, you never know. She well as might just be agitated with you not asking her about it. Have you lately been a lot busy? If yes, then you might have been not able to give her time. That may have made her feel a little neglected. Try talking to her on a deeper level and try to understand what she truly feels like. That may help.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 28, 2021
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Communication is the key. If you both haven't talked yet, sit and talk. Maybe things will sort out. She may have her problems, insecurities or maybe some misunderstanding. If you are really serious about her ,clear everything. Make her comfortable, make her feel safe. Even if , she refuses to talk and doesn't want to talk, give her space and time. But don't forget to think about yourself. In any relationship, both partners' wellbeing has to be taken into consideration. Take care of yourself too and your loved ones as well. Ups and downs are faced in every relationship . What matters, is how we deal them and keep them close.
Profile: bbtAndsushi
bbtAndsushi on Jun 18, 2021
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One of the reasons that your girlfriend may suddenly turn on you is the suppressed negative emotion. She may have consciously or subconsciously suppressed her anger, sadness and/or resentment towards you. This is most likely not intentional and could be because she is taught that expressing her negative emotions may lead to undesired consequences or she's never been shown how to express them. This may give you an illusion that she has the most accommodating personality while the resentment may be accumulating. When she does express her emotion, it may be abrupt and unexpected. Please be patient with her and listen without judgement.
Profile: ElisaBobbiT
ElisaBobbiT on Sep 3, 2021
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You should trying talking to her, ask her how she is. Make sure to not comment on anything until she is finished talking. If she does not want to talk, give her some space and wait until you think is appropriate. It might be hard at first, but if you truly care for her, you will succeed. If the reason is insensible and could harm you or your relationship with other people, please think thoroughly of the things that matter to you and decide what you what to do and how to act. Remember to put yourself first and be nice to others.
Profile: AdvocacyMan
AdvocacyMan on Jan 13, 2022
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This is a tough and very broad question. If you've done something that is considered to be something she doesn't like and you know what you've done then that may be why she dislikes you. (Hate is a very strong word) You should take steps in this case to make her feel less upset due to your actions. However, if you are assuming she hates you because she simply isn't talking to you and hasn't directly said she hates you (dislikes you) then you need to figure out some ways where you can change that thought pattern of assuming things. Assuming things can cause a lot of anxiety for no reason. Try to think of some ways to improve your relationship or yourself.
Profile: SmallSleepy
SmallSleepy on Jan 21, 2022
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This is such a sensitive one. If you feel as if she hates you, that’s probably not the case. Outgrown? Possibly. Evolved? Definitely. People are under this impression that we as individuals will always feel the same about someone or some thing for ever. People are always shocked when someone finally says “this isn’t for me anymore.” The truth is we are changing constantly. Daily even. You likely don’t like your first favorite color or the bands you listened to as a kid. People are the same way. And I think if we could all collectively learn that humans outgrow one another solely because we are shedding our layers and growing ourselves, things would hurt way less.
Profile: Quinnhawkins89
Quinnhawkins89 on Mar 16, 2022
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Hello, I would first of all consider what you define as hate? People often exhibit strong emotions when they are under stress or feeling depressed and overwhelmed. Is it that your girlfriend is feeling frustrated with everyone or you. The most important thing to do in these situations is to have an open conversation with your girlfriend asking what is wrong? If you feel that she is feeling somewhat hostile to you, and you believe it is safe to do so, then speak to her frankly and explain how you are feeling. Relationships are based on trust and communication. Rather than allowing issues to build up, find a time and a place that is as stress free as possible, explain that you have noticed a change in her behaviors and explain how that is making you feel.
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