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Why does my girlfriend hate me all of a sudden?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 28, 2020
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There may be a lot of reasons as to why you make feel like your girlfriend may be giving you the cold shoulder without any warning. Maybe she is going through some personal issues and that she isn't ready to share with you yet. Maybe she may have misinterpreted a situation or an action and is holding it against you. Or maybe she is having a bad mental health period and is overwhelmed with a lot of thoughts. Whatever it may be I would suggest approaching her with an open and warm mindset and being prepared for her to open up with you. If she requires space or your attention be ready to provide her with that. Good luck :)
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Profile: sanjana1212
sanjana1212 on Aug 30, 2020
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Try to recall what your relationship has been like recently. If you believe her change in behavior was instantaneous, there may be some issue on your end. Usually, a sudden "hatred" can be fixed because it's not a result of things occurring again and again. The best and healthiest way to know is to talk to her however; it may be worse or better than you thought. Be polite, ask her if everything is okay, and if she tries to dismiss it, make it clear that you're worried and have no idea what is troubling her and you want to help.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 11, 2020
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There can be multiple reasons that your girlfriend hate you all of a sudden. First of all, is she your real girlfriend or is just a girl who for who you use word friend in the phrase girlfriend? Sometimes it can be very hard to find out whether persons loves you genuinely or whether they just hang out with you till they find another partner. Maybe she got her love and now she wants to get rid of you and hating you all of a sudden can be one of methods of getting rid of you in oder to start be girlfriend of another man.
Profile: WoundedDeer
WoundedDeer on Sep 13, 2020
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Well, to answer this question, we need to know the circumstances. Without knowing them i can only advise one thing: ask her! The key in a relationship is the honest, opened communication. Ask her why her attitude changed towards you, what is her problem, and lastly, how can you help her. After she says exactly what the problem is, all is up to you. Your first goal is improve yourself, evolve, so your relationship could evolve and improve also. I don't know if it was helpful or not, but that is my opinion. Feel free to contact me for more.
Profile: Returncontrol2u
Returncontrol2u on Sep 19, 2020
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You only have half of the responsibility and control in a relationship. You are not psychic and neither are they. As long as you try to keep in touch with other's feelings, you will come across times when you are not sure what you are seeing. The best way to check if you are detecting their feelings correctly is to ask them and listen carefully. When you ask, make sure you have opened their opportunities to say whatever is on their mind without criticism or ridicule. You know part of them, let them fill in the gaps and don't be afraid of the answer.
Profile: Secretivesunshine42
Secretivesunshine42 on Oct 10, 2020
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There could be many reasons one of them being lack of interest. or maybe you did something to upset her? or maybe someone lied to her about you? this is something that you should try and talk to her about and communicate with her about so she at least understands your concerns and maybe you understand her reasoning as to why this was happening in the first place. Communication is a strong part of everyday life so if she refuses to communicate she isnt even worth the struggle but if she does deciede to communicate tell her your feelings and work to fix the situation.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 14, 2020
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Remember it's not your fault, obviously it's something about himself that he does not like it's easier for him to hate you instead of working on his own problem. And you can do better if he wants to hate you then love you it's a relationship that you don't need, and don't need to be in. You're a good person deserves better. Don't take that move on, later down the road when he realize the best thing in his life he let go of, that's something that he will have to live with just remember it's not your fault it's his own and he has a problem with himself and he has low self esteem. Like I said it's easier for him to hate you then hate himself work on his own faults
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 18, 2020
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You really need to analyse whether it's true or it is a reflection of something you are going through. I mean your feelings are completely valid but you also need to understand other person's perspective. Your girlfriend might be going through something and wasn't able to share the same. That can be one of the reasons for this behaviour. Sit and talk to her about this. Don't let this ruin your relationship. If this doesn't take you somewhere then just tell how you feel. How this whole situation is making you feel. Most of the problems can be solved easily by communication.
Profile: Arvindkaur
Arvindkaur on Oct 22, 2020
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Its not that someone hates you in a couple of seconds or minutes. It might be due to some misunderstandings or in any case if you knowingly or unknowingly hurted her. Moreover hatism is also if she might be not serious with you as a relationship so. Don't try to figure out much. Feelings are sometimes due to instant reactions. So if you really care about her. You can just think about the situation that what are the things that might hurted her or ofcourse if you haven't then it means maybe theres a misunderstanding which is created and caused this
Profile: colourfulBerry413
colourfulBerry413 on Oct 29, 2020
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Before considering this, i would answer yourself a few questions. Did your expectations changed immediately? Is your behavior same as it was? Was it something i did and myself not familiar or vice versea? if there is a negative answer to these question so in your brain she is not changed all of a sudden but practically she is. Yes the only solution to the second problem is talking it out with empathy and love. try to rectify every problem, make sure you assure her not just conventionally how you have been doing, Try something new. Sometimes it also may not be hate we might be gauging it might be her sudden mood swings, make sure you also have love for it. you will get back more than you invest.
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