Why does breaking up hurt so much?

Because you're human. You're expected to love. And when you lose something to love, it's gonna hurt. You only know you love something when it's gone!

It hurts so much because your losing a person who you thought would always be there , who you cared about and loved is now gone and that hurts .

It simply hurts. You can feel it in your stomach, in your heart, it effects your whole being. But dont be afraid. Love is endless. There is unlimited love. Dont avoid love because you are afraid of breaking up.

Because it is a tremendous loss. A relationship is a very valuable connection. When you're in a relationship with someone, you spend a lot of time with them and get to know them super well. Breaking up means that you lose this connection. That is very painful.

Breaking up hurts because there was an emotional connection between both people. Despite who left who, there is always the pain of loss, even more so the memories associated with that person. It hurts because there is also the fear of never finding another person like them, and the prospect of being alone. In the end, each breakup although it doesn't seem so, gives you a better sense of clarity on how to improve yourself, your quality of life and either reconcile or move on.

Because you loved him/her. And you thought that they felt the same way. You put so much time and effort into that person. And it sucks because you can't get that back.

It hurts because 1) Feeling: i am losing out on love. 2) Fear : what if i never found love again. 3) Insecurity: will he/she be happy without me? 4) Guilt: what could i have done differently? 5) Expectation: will he/she remember me and regret this breakup later on? 6) Pain: all the dreams which i have seen with him/her will never be true. 7) Dilemma: am i right in breaking up?

When in a relationship, the people involved share these unique feelings and the two individuals become dependent on each other for that great feeling. As time passes by, you get used to incorporating them in your life. Breaking up after accepting someone hurts because that special connection that you had with one person has ended. You become to feel lonely and need to feel that mutual feeling again. That's why, with time, the hurting goes away. You start to realize you don't need this person to function. When in a relationship, your brain acts the same way it would if you were addicted to a drug- chemically.

Because you shared your life with this person and he/she knows all of your fears and all your likes and dislikes you trusted this person with your life and got used to being around them so it hurts when all of a sudden you don't share a thing with this person

Because we love to some with Heart not from mind. Heart is for love and mind for strategy. if you want love, you need to take this risk.