Why does breaking up hurt so much?

In a healthy relationship there is trust and communication, without those fundamentals it causes anxiety, stress and mistrust. It hurts because you put your heart and dedication into a relationship which you think will work to find obstacals that let your emotions get entangled with what if's and other stuff. Just remember within time comes healing and that healing comes serenity and peace.

It hurts so much because you really cared for that person and you opened yourself to that person. Feelings you had with them were very strong and real.

A break up feels like the end of the opportunity for happiness and someone to acknowledge and love you. It hurts because you feel you have opened yourself up and given yourself freely only to feel rejection.

When you love someone, you integrate them into every day. You think about them, they help you do things, they solve problems, and they just exist along with you. When that all disappears, you feel lost because you actually lost something.

Breaking up hurts because somebody you've trusted and been close to for a while, shared things with has decided to call things of, be it because of you or them or someone else, an important part of your life has been taken away and it hurts to see that person having their life the same without you in it.

Breaking up is hurt so much because you feel frustrated, upset, unbalance inside and not unsafe. by the way, all of this is optional.

Breaking up with someone can be compared to the loss of someone. It is only natural that pain is associated with this, however break-ups are different for everyone and some people hurt more than others. Just remember that time heals all scars and bruising.

It is the same reason someone close to dying hurt us so much. The only difference is the separation here is instigated by us and well both the partners are very much alive and feeling searing pain of separation. Love is euphoric. Break up throws you hard on the ground and man! that's a bad bad fall. All you need is time and some good company and things will get better.

Well I think it has to do a lot with the fact that you allow yourself to be open with someone. And that person ends up accepting you for who you are. And you end up falling in love with each other, faults and all. Then suddenly that person you relied on, that you depended on so much, and were always so happy to be with and around, suddenly isn't there. But you have to remember, you were okay before them. You WILL be okay after them.

Because you gave your heart to someone and put yourself outthere and had many memories you will always cherish so when its over you feel as if non of that will come back.