Why does breaking up hurt so much?

i understand that breakups can be hard, usually because you put it so much time and effort into it and its exhausting to start over again but eventually it'll get better and it'll hurt a lot less.

Because you love and care about that person, and you want them to be a part of your life. It hurts to think that the future you dreamt of with them of is gone.

Because once they were a part of your life, possibly as of they were one with you and you could no longer live with them. If they made a place in your heart then once they leave there is a "hole" in your heart. Someone who was once a part of you being gone would definitely hurt you

Ending a relationship with someone we care about can hurt. Hurting after a break up is normal because it signifies and ending. Though it is often helpful to think of what new beginning you have to look forward to. What do you want next for yourself? What steps will get you there?

Because sometimes it's too hard to leave the person you once loved or still love. Breaking up with the person you once cared about or still care about is hard because it's not something you can do today and forget about tomorrow. You probably talked to that person every day and had feelings for him/her so there is going to be a change in your life. That change will make you sad, the fact that you're not going to be able to be with them anymore or talk to them anymore. It's okay though, that's normal. But it's not forever, you'll get over it. Things happen because they have to happen, lots of love

It hurts because you really cared for that person and because no matter how long you were together that person became a part of your life. Breaking up can be hard but I believe everything happens for a reason.

There are probably many different reasons but the main one that I have seen is that you miss the connection you had with them. You miss the possible future you would have had with them. You miss the way they looked at you or held you. Break ups hurt a lot. It feels like someone died. And in a way that is true. Your future with them died.

Because we expect some much from one person we love that person more than anything in the world and when we break up can't believe what has happened or why it has.. All we think about are the memories that's killing us.

Because youre losing someone who you loved and trusted, and now its over and it won't be the same. I know its hard iM SORRY

breaking up hurts so much because you had trusted this person to always love and be there for you. Relationships are hard work and if you are not ready for it emotionally it can wreck both you and the other person.