Why do I get over people so easily?

Maybe you do not allow yourself to become overly attached to people. Or maybe its possible that you don't let people all the way in emotionally so when they are gone from your life it doesn't affect you much.

An answer to that could be because you don’t get too involved with people, you don’t build a proper emotional connection or you get distracted/bored quite easily.

You have stronger mindset to get over things beyond your control. It may be useful to do so in order to move forth.

Because they aren't worth remembering. I do believe this.. If i ever find someone who was so much useful for my growth path, i would never forget him/her. I will pray for him/her everyday and will always remember him/her. They are always in my heart.. and this feeling is so good than to wanting them again and making everyday difficult to live. It's bitter to know but it's true.. we are the one responsible for our own misery. People will leave, forget them who did bad to you, love them who always support you. And love blossoms in separation. Attachment is the enemy of love. About all those who did bad to you, think about it, if they are even worth to be in your mind? You are gonna meet so many like them. Just get over them is the only option to make everything easier. And there's nothing bad in getting over them.

For me at least, I know that as I've gotten hurt more and more when I have to end a relationship or distance myself it does feel like it does get a lot easier. In some ways, I feel like this is because it gets easier for me to detach, or perhaps I tend to invest less of my heart as time goes on. You could also be getting over people easier because you weren't really invested to begin with. This is in no way meant to be a criticism--I think it happens to each of us at one time or another. I hope this helps answer your question.

It's possible you just aren't emotionally connecting to them to the level you think you are. I also tend to get over people insanely well and do not understand when people are stuck on a break-up or death for over a week because I simply just do allow myself to get emotionally connected to people to be hurt as such. It is possible you're doing the same thing with the same motive out of subconscious fear of being hurt. It is also possible you simply just get over most things quickly and there is not really a reasoning for it.

I think there is an upside and a downside to getting over people so easily. If you find that you do not get attached to people you love or you keep a distance on purpose then this could be the reason and maybe this is not so healthy. If you find that you get super attached but then the slightest tension in the relationship makes you think twice then this is probably a fear of losing them and therefor not allowing growth in the relationship. Many times I think this is due to abandonments from the past. Its important to have meaningful relationships and allow hurts from The past to be the past and not ruin the chances of a new growing relationship.

Some people emotionally distance or seperate themselves when they feel that a relationship is not working. In cases when the couple try so hard to make things work, one or both parties may have given up - but fear of being alone may prolong a breakup. You may get over people quickly because you have emotionally broken up with the person before a physical breakup has happened. When you do finally seperate, you may also be ready for a new relationship. This in no way is a bad person. It just means that you know what you want in a relationship. It is important to communicate this though so that you remain emotionally connected in a relationship.

Some people may get over people quickly. It is not quite a bad thing, although others may view it as. It varies from person to person. In my personal experience, I also get over people very easily. It does not mean that I did not love them or care for them any less. I'm not sure the true meaning why some get overs other quickly. Maybe you knew subconsciously it was time to move on. Or maybe you processed the entire situation without even realizing it. Nonetheless, it is not a bad thing and I don't think there is a one-sized fits all answer to it.

Getting over people can be a tough experience especially if you shared a lot of special moments with a particular person. From a personal experience, I have been able to get over people by accepting that there is a season and a time for everything in my life. The same is with everyone's life. Letting go has come with accepting that people are meant to come and go and that every interaction in my life is meant to teach me a lesson. The duration of some interactions may be longer than others but at the end of the day, once the purpose of a particular person in your life has been completed, they will go. So, I find appreciating and learning from every interaction I have with people helps me let go easily.