Why do I feel like I'm cheating on him still, even though we broke up months ago?

Well thats simple, even though the relationship was long over, your heart feels like you're still tied up to him. And no matter how much time passes, you continuously keep on thinking about him and about what you had with him as a couple. Which is why, then when you start seeing other people, you feel as though you're cheating on him and the new relationship with the other guy would feel wrong.

Often when you're with someone for a long time, you build your life around them and you get used to them. They become a habit, something that is somewhat like an organ. Sometimes, you even build your plans and dreams around them. When they leave, it feels like something is wrong. Out of habit, you go to make two cups of coffees, you buy the chocolate that they liked. Similarly, when you finally start seeing someone else, it feels wrong. You are so used to being faithful, not looking at anyone else, giving them all your attention and love that when someone else finally tries to come in, it takes some time to re-adjust, remind your body, heart and brain that you're not doing anything wrong. Stay strong x

Because you still love him and/or still have feelings for him. You feel like it doesn't feel right being with anyone else. You don't know whether to move on or not. You're stuck between a rock and a hard place. You feel like even though he says he's moved on that he hasn't and that he still cares and that could very well be the case. People don't always say what they mean whether it be good or bad. You feel like deep down he still wants you in a way. and that if he found out about you being with someone else, he would be upset. I know because I have been your shoes before.

You broke up with him but you are still feeling bad when you are with other men/boys. He probably meant a lot for you. If you want to talk with me about the breakup, feel free to contact me.

Because you are still mentally having a relationship with him even though he's not there anymore. Time to work on letting go and focusing on your future.

It sounds like you still feel connected to him for whatever reason. Perhaps you haven't gotten the closure you need. Maybe some soul searching and some quality time with your thoughts will give you the answers you need. He may have been controlling in a sense as well, causing you to feel guilty for moving on. Or you may still have feelings for him.

Because you all were so close that you feel like you still owe him loyalty. You have to ask yourself a qustion. Is he being loyal to you still ?

I understand how it is to feel hat way, when you are so closely attached to.someone for such a long time, you don't feel like giving up so soon. So, even when its over and you start liking or hooking with someone else, this constant feeling of guilt is not something you need. I know its hard, its tough and not easy to get over it but you can't let your past overpower your present and future. You are not cheating on anyone, go out, be with anyone you want, have fun, fall in love again. You are amazing :)

The idea is to realize where you are now and that you are single and available. You have to let go of the fact that you belong to him anymore and you have to be in charge of your own happiness. Just as he is responsible for his own.

Break-ups can be tough! Give yourself some time to build yourself up! You might not be ready to move on! Find some hobbies, talk to old friends/make new friends. Go out and have a good time just for yourself! You can't be happy with someone else until you're happy with yourself