Why do I always pick mates that are not suited for me?

There's an old saying that opposites attract. I think it's true. If you had someone who had the same interests as you and enjoyed everything you did, you'd never be open to new possibilities. While having opposite interests is always a positive, there are some downfalls. Such as the fact you may never agree on things. In the end it's all a matter of what you want and how you like things. :)

There are people around us, who aren't meant to be kind or friendly. I try to seperate myself from negative influences.

We often choose the one that kills us or perhaps it's the 'opposites attracts'. We're bad at making choices because we often only use our heart.

The people who always says the right things aren't necessarily the best ..sometimes you have to give a chance to those who shows that they're good

Because that's the easiest thing to do for us, a status quo we've learned during our childhood and when we get older. We have to put a serious effort into picking the right mates that suits for us.

You may just be attracted to people that are different than you. These differences come off as endearing at first, but then as you get to know them further or even further into the relationship they begin to cause conflict. I do believe in the statement that opposites attract, but I think it should be to a certain degree. Make sure that the next time you want to pursue something with someone serious, ask them what their intentions are for your relationship, what they want out of it, and where they ultimately see it going. These major questions are things you should see eye to eye on, and from there the small things can be worked out.