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Why do I always pick mates that are not suited for me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 9, 2015
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We all make mistakes, soon you will learn from them, and pick the right people to be friends with.
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Profile: usefulStar85
usefulStar85 on Mar 10, 2015
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because you feel like if they are with you they might become the person you want them to be but that's not always the case.
Profile: MelissaElissa17
MelissaElissa17 on Apr 6, 2015
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Maybe because those type of people you choose attracts you, because you have feelings for those people.
Profile: peaser0712
peaser0712 on Apr 8, 2015
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Whenever I realize that I've done that I've been told on many occasions that Self Sabotage is often a big culprit in that area.
Profile: BrunoFB
BrunoFB on Apr 9, 2015
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Everbody makes mistakes in life, you should see what your previosly mates have in common both good and bad side and tink what you want in a next mate
Profile: WJB
WJB on May 7, 2015
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Due to slow self-esteem you normally try to find comfort zones in people who you know are out of your league and tend to ignore their shortcomings.
Profile: bouncyLion28
bouncyLion28 on Jun 22, 2015
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Because we are alone so we need any person to stay alive,but that is bad you do not need a person to be ok,you need yourself to b greatful
Profile: musicalDew34
musicalDew34 on Nov 11, 2015
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Well people chang from time to time.. so when u pick those mates they all seem good but at time paases they all turn out to be something else...so dnt blame your self for them
Profile: WhatsernameG16
WhatsernameG16 on Nov 17, 2015
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We have the ability to choose our friends. Some will admit that they do judge a book by its cover. We're too busy thinking that they'll make us popular or cool and we ignore the fact they could be hurting us mentally and sometimes physically. It takes time to realize that and sometimes it's hard to let those friends go because they make you feel like they have control over you. You need to be able to break away and find people who will accept you and love you the way you are.
Profile: PaloP
PaloP on Dec 28, 2015
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We always look in our mate the things that we like to be, things that make us to be proud of our mates. But maybe, you look for something that you really don't like, but you don't know that. Or you're looking for something that you have, and you think that if your mate have it too, that would be great, but it's not true. What is the reason that makes you feel inconfortable with your mate? That is the thing that you need to think about.
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