Why do I always blame myself for the breakup?

Its human nature to blame oneself. I even blamed myself for my house being robbed. I didn't think of a good lock, or burglar alarm or cctv camera or bullet proofing gas panes before the burglary and therefore I was to blame, right? Wrong. You are not to blame for everything that happens. In fact in some situations, there is no one to blame. Sometimes things are just not meant to work out and both of you need to move on after a break up. It is no one's fault, it was just not meant to be. Hope this helps you.

You're the only one who can find out why you blame yourself. What might help though is to remind yourself that you are a human being and that you deserve to be loved and there are always too people in a relationship. Breaking up can be hurtful but it will go by and most of the time it's nobody's fault, but people grow appart.

Maybe you have a low self steem and you believe you were not good enough. Try to think that you did your best and if it didnt work its not your fault (:

Bcuz u think u r not good enough for anything in this world...but darling u r worth ur self.. dont blame urself for anything...

Blaming yourself for things is in our nature. It does not mean, it is your fault tho. Breaking up is a two way road. And now wasting your time worrying about it won't bring you happiness, I suggest rather get yourself a cup of coffee or tea and relax, take time for yourself, believe me you will feel better

During a breakup, two people are involved. Obviously you are going to focus on the things that you did wrong! But the important thing to remember is that everything happens for a reason. Don't blame yourself for things that were meant to happen.

Because as a human, you are innocent and have a kind heart. It’s not your fault all the time. If it was, it’s very normal because you’re only human. People make mistakes.

You feel as if it was your fault, that you weren’t good enough for the person. Or that you didn’t give them what they needed.

Everyone does little bit. When you love someone you cant even imagine he/she can make some mistakes and you start thinking the blame is on you. There's nothing bad about being sorry, but the reasons of breakup are on the both sides (:

Because you feel that guilt of letting go of the other. But you shouldn't blame yourself. It will never be your fault even if you were the one who broke it up. A break up is something composed of fears and insecurities. Therefor, not you. For you are you.