Why do I always blame myself for the breakup?

Because it is easier to make yourself look bad than realize that the other person is not who you believed they were. You tend to want to keep that good image of them you once had.

I think part of it is our minds looking for closure, and we want to understand what went wrong and how things could have been different. This doesn't mean it is all your fault though, but I understand the blaming because I have done it after past break ups aswell. I hope you can find peace and move forward in your life.

Don't blame yourself for a break up, these things happen. It's all apart of growing up and it teaches us lessons. But blaming yourself for a break up won't help you to grow and take away the nice things from your relationship. A break-up always happens because of something and generally break-ups are two way things.

happens with most of the people. we think if we can do something to make things work, and that does not happen

It’s normal to blame yourself when things don’t work out. its just something you’re going through for a while. the problem is not in you, the real proble Is in comunication and facing the problem with the other problem

probably because the other person is making it seem like you’re the one to blame. know the situation before you believe it.

Maybe you feel that you have not been good enough which makes you think that you are to be blamed for the breakup.

That's not your fault it's human nature to do that. When we have something we take it forgranted as it was last forever but it won't and when it's gone we start blaming ourselves that we could do this and that. Nothing lasts forever so keep everything in mind when you start a relationship.

Because you have low confidence from the break up so it’s easier to blame your self than look for the logical explanation

That happens with many people, mostly the kind ones who know how bad it feels to get blamed for, so they take the blame upon themselves. There are also those who are not confident about themselves and tend to find faults in themselves. I have friends who blame themselves for anything that affects their relationship and try to find where they went wrong, or what part of them needs to be changed (even though personally, I think they are perfectly fine the way they are). I have also met those who have been through a bad period in their life which develops this feeling.