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Why did they not give me a proper reason for breaking up with me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 11, 2015
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Because it is a coward's way out. Also, if you really cared about me, you'd give me the reason. If no reason was given, you have just proven to me that you really didn't care about me at all.
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Profile: piag860517
piag860517 on Jul 1, 2016
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Nobody need to explian their feelings to others; people just dont own you an explanation; we all want to know what happend? why they leave us; but the other person is entitle to leave you with out explanation; nobody is obligated to love you or explain their decisions; when is over is over; stop thinking what went wrong on focus on yourself; close the circule the they he dump you; you dont need to know more, you are perfect; and if your ex didnt see it; is his problem not yours; dont overthink of that; the answer you are looking for is never going to come for you...or is not going to make you happy, move on kido.
Profile: slightlyodd99
slightlyodd99 on Aug 31, 2015
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There could be a lot of reasons. Sometimes the person itself is confused on their own feelings, and didn't want to continue until they figured something out. Granted I could just be making assumptions, but the bottom line is that in life people do come and go and that's okay. You have ups and downs, you lose and you gain, that's just how the world works. Please know that I completely empathize with you, but also know that through the passage of time you will feel better and breakups are something we can all relate with and we all go through. Hope you feel better! sorry if this answer was inadequate
Profile: SchizophrenicPianoRap
SchizophrenicPianoRap on Jun 30, 2015
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They probably did not want to hurt you, especially when they already broke up with you. They do not want you to think it was your fault, which it wasn't.
Profile: lovelyLynx18
lovelyLynx18 on Jun 21, 2015
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Did you ask them for a reason? If you did and they won't answer you then they probably don't have a good reason or a reason they are embarrassed to tell you.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Nov 16, 2015
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Sometimes the reason people breakup for are just ridiculous. But the whole idea is that the person who broke up with you was not interested to make it work in the first place and so shouldn't you waste your trying to make sense or anything else out of it by yourself. Always remember in a relationship it takes 2 hands to clap not 1.
Profile: Bulelo
Bulelo on Jan 5, 2016
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They probably don't have one; some people are too ashamed to admit that they just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore and therefore cannot find a reason to break up. Don't feel as if you're to blame or that you are unworthy for it!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2016
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They may have been confused about why they wanted to break up with you, they may have just known something wasn't working and wanted out of the commitment.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 30, 2015
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If they don't give you a proper reason for breaking up on you than they weren't the right person for you, you can do better than them, I promise.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 26, 2017
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Your ex possibly didn't give you a good reason for breaking up with you because he/she doesn't have one. It's a possibility that they are going through something and don't want to share it.
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