Why can't I seem to win his/her affection even though I do everything he/she likes?

This question seems like the type of thing to be asked by someone who believes in the friendzone and how just because you do something nice for somebody,they owe you something.Everyone is attracted to different types of people and although you provide the person what they like and want,this doesn't mean that you have the characteristics that the person desires.

Because in the end, you cannot control other people, just as they cannot control you. They are still in charge of what decisions they make, and not everyone is going to mesh well. That is ok. People are individuals and must live to make themselves happy. Then they can know when they find someone they are compatible with to have a healthy 100/100 relationship.

It's all a question of attraction. If you ex does not come back to you, it is because she is not attracted to you. You need to seduce him/her as you did the first time. Doing everything you ex likes is totally counterproductive. You need to be "the prize" not a lackey groveling for a piece of his/her affection. Take some time apart. Focus on yourself for sometimes and rebuild your confidence. Then contact your ex and see if you can reignite the flame.

perhaps he or she isn't in that particular head space. perhaps everything you are doing that he or she likes, would actually win his or her affection if the both of you were on the same page. so don't beat yourself up it might just be a matter of timing.

You have to know that sometimes its not your fault may be the person u may like may be going through there on personal battle that can be causing them to distant there selves for some reason and is afraid of allowing there self to become vunerable.

Affection is given no won. Its his/her choice to give it to you as well as take it away from you. So be wise when you are giving someone to get an affection because its his/hers to give.

Perhaps he doesn't like you do everything he likes. You should be focusing on yourself and what's wrong with him (as he doesn't wish to give you affection)

Sometimes you may try too hard to impress, relax and take your time to gain their affection. This may not be about winning it's about who you really like, not who you think you should like