Why can't I seem to move on?
Laks1
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Aug 13, 2017
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You can't seem to move on because you keeo dwelling on the past. When you still hold on to something, it prevents you from moving on. You can't move past it but when you let go, it has no room to even be on your mind or affect you
generousWaterfall39
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Sep 14, 2017
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Everyone heals at their own pace. One of the most important and sometimes challenging aspects of healing is being gentle with yourself. Listen to your needs, stay positive about the progress you have made and revisit the feelings when you are ready. You are not alone. People often go through times when they feel "stuck". My experience has been taking a deep breath, acknowledging where I am and accepting it with compassion allows me to move forward once again.
comfortingTruth71
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Oct 15, 2017
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We often find excuses for ourselves when we need to do some changes: "it's not the right time", "I am not ready yet", "I don't have time." Changes scare us and we rather choose to stay in our comfort zone than go out there and chase our dreams. Stop repeating the same stories in your head and decide to take the leap.
Anonymous
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Nov 29, 2017
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Part of you is still attached to what you are stuck on and part of you doesn't want to let go to whatever you had
eeveeon
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Dec 6, 2017
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Moving on isn't meant to be easy. It is one of life's many challenges. We are here to learn from what we do - and here you are learning the case of letting go and moving forward.
You probably can't because you are so stuck to the norm, you might be scared of something new and a new life. You could be experiencing negative fortune telling. There can be many things causing you to fear or retract moving on, but with time you will get used to it and become more comfortable with it.
JRAS
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Dec 9, 2017
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BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT SEEING THE OTHER HAPPY PART OF LIFE,LIMITING YOUR HAPPINESS IS NOT GOOD THERE ARE OTHER FACES TOO TO MAKE YOU HAPPY
mc1529
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Dec 10, 2017
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Moving on can be a truly hard experience. It takes not only time but actively trying to put them out of your mind. It will be hard but at some point you will be able to feel yourself let go of the feelings attached.
absentveins
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Dec 13, 2017
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Moving on can be a pretty hard process. When me and my boyfriend broke up, I had trouble getting over the fact that we did. I was looking for him everywhere, and this went on for as long as I can remember. I still loved him even though he was an asshole but one day I had enough and went my own way. It's not easy for everyone, but for me, I started taking care of myself mentally. I started writing to express myself in poetry and I got into sports and reading. I went my own way and I kept telling myself that he didn't deserve me, and that I deserve someone who loves me and won't hurt me. It wasn't easy, because I still kept looking for him at times but taking care of myself mentally and physically took my mind off of things and made me focus on myself more. Try to look at the bright side of life, even if for you, it was them. There's so much at life you're gonna miss if you keep focusing on how it used to be with him/her. Live for yourself, not anyone else.
Anonymous
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Dec 14, 2017
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We can't move on because we still don't accept the fact that we have to. We're still holding on to the memories, and to the joy we once had.
Anonymous
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Dec 30, 2017
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Moving on takes time. Letting go takes time. In time you will forge new experiences and new memories that will replace what you are hanging on to. Be patient... time heals
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