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Why can't i move on after the break up?

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Anonymous on Jan 14, 2016
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There is never a set time, be patient with yourself. Take tiny steps even if it seems so little and praise yourself every time you make progress
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Anonymous on Jan 20, 2016
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We all have experienced some kind of emotional pain. It hurts. I get that. But what you do with that hurt is probably more important than the hurt itself. Would you prefer to get back to being an active liver of life? Or do you prefer to ruminate endlessly about the past and something that cannot be changed?
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Anonymous on Jan 28, 2016
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Because you're emotionally attached to that person. Only time will heal your broken heart. Hope everything is okay.
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Anonymous on Jan 29, 2016
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You're so used to all the love andoing affection that when it all ends you can't get past that, or you're still in love with your ex.
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SmilingInTheShadows on Jan 29, 2016
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Moving on takes time. Everyone's different and so are relationships. Take your time and it will come.
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happy22icecream on Jan 29, 2016
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Well, I think it is very difficult to get over someone after you have had a relationship with them. But, the first step to move on after relationship, is to want to move on. I know it may be difficult, but, you have to be over your past before you can move on. I would talk to someone about it. Like a close friend.
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Anonymous on Jan 30, 2016
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You went through something and it's going to take time. It's ok to be sad or angry, or even a bit depressed. A break up in a big thing. Some things need time to be sad over. Just remember to take care of yourself, and remember that things WILL get better. Time will do much of the healing..
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WhisperingPiano on Jan 31, 2016
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Moving on takes time. It sucks but it really does take time. It is like weaning yourself off a drug. Focus on daily activities, keep yourself busy. Putting away any photos or memorabilia might help and also avoiding contact with the ex. These little things could help.
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ciaraorourke333 on Jan 31, 2016
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You can move on...maybe your just not ready and your still holding on. sometimes you just have to realise that a certain person wasn't right for you and you have to remind yourself that you deserve better. You have to take it at your own pace though because letting someone go can be a hard process especially if you were particularly close
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Toby1996 on Jul 26, 2016
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It's normal to feel this way after a breakup. Moving on is difficult, but it can happen. Important things to do are to realize that you are struggling with emotions and you should not avoid them. If you feel like you're going to cry, then cry. Let it out. Next thing to do is to realize that if gf/bf was serious about getting back together with you, then you would still be together. They're an ex for a reason.
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