Why can't I just find someone who will love me for who I am?

You will. But first, you need to love yourself. Once you do that, you'll know what is right for you and would not be disheartened. Cause one day, you'll find that person who would love you for who you are. Be yourself. Many would try to change you, but true love helps you grow in life. Therefore be true to your own feelings. Know that you matter. If someone loves you they will understand your feelings and would always be there when you need them. But it will take time. Do not compromise with your feelings just to be with someone who doesn't care about your feelings. Love comes with respect, trust, and honesty. You'll know it when it is true love. So take your time.

you can, its mostly yourself no liking who you really are or you dont know who you really are (totaly fine we all loose ourselves and change its good to seek help if it has bad effects on your life)

You should know that the most important love is love from yourself. You should make sure that you love yourself before you start looking for love from anybody else. And don't rush it really. The right person for you is out there, and you two will meet when the time is right. He will be the one who will love you for who you truly are for your personality. In the meantime don't rush it. Enjoy yourself. Love yourself. And learn to be happy by yourself before you bring someone to share your life with. I'm sure that you are a wonderful person!

Patience is key. There are people that will love you for you! They are just hidden behind those that don't. Don't give up!! You are worth being loved! My grandmother taught me that you can count on one hand the amount of people in life that love you and would do anything for you. I have found that is true for everyone so imagine how long it can take to find those people. Once you do though, it's worth the wait! My circle is small but amazing! Yours will be as well! There is a lot of support here and lots of love in the meantime!

As cliché as it sounds, you will find someone. It takes time. Real love, or 'true love', shows up when you least expect it. Finding someone who loves you for who you are is far easier said than done. People often judge others for things, including things that are out of their control. And because of that, it might be hard to feel loved for being yourself. Finding your soul mate or life partner happens without any effort. There's no way to predict it or force it to happen. The only thing you can do is wait it out. You can spend time improving yourself and doing the things you love. Patience is key.

I think some people just find love in the wrong places. I think you should be able to focus on yourself and sometimes you gotta wait for true love to find you. I have tried to chase love and ended up tearing my self apart. Today I my relationship ended because they wanted someone else instead of me. Sometimes it's better to be single then have yourself be broken all over again. I hate the feeling to lose something you love but I also need to take a break and forgive myself and love myself before I can try to love someone/something first. Always put yourself first.