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Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?

Profile: YouBeYou
YouBeYou on Jul 15, 2016
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Because we all think we need to be right, and so we all will try and force our opinion home to prove it
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Profile: shoshho
shoshho on Jul 29, 2016
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I believe because we are agitated because of some bigger underlying the surface and that has to be dealt with. if not, then it might be due to us not being aware of ourselves and get carried away without thinking of how others might interpret it.
Profile: CharlieMorningstar
CharlieMorningstar on Sep 9, 2016
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Because there's likely a bigger issue that was never resolved, and all of the small and stupid things just add to the pile. The issue might not even be between you, it might be work-related, or family issues!
Profile: ThatsCherry
ThatsCherry on Sep 10, 2016
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It's okay to do that. Everybody does it sometimes, nobody has to feel bad about it. It is a normal thing.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 7, 2016
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Sometimes fights over small and stupid things are just stupid fights for no reason but sometimes they're hiding something bigger. You need to figure out which
Profile: Monique89
Monique89 on Aug 3, 2017
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We may have triggered some feelings from experiences in the past which can lead to resentment and causing people to argue over little things. Also, everyone has different point of views, and we may not be able to see another's perspective. Another reason could be a lack of respect.
Profile: sweetlemon16
sweetlemon16 on Jun 8, 2018
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Because sometimes things that seem to be small and stupid for others actually mean the world to someone else.
Profile: cruellastar
cruellastar on Oct 18, 2018
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Yeah! Why are you letting that small things ruin ur relationship. Is it worth it? Its not right? So, grow up! Learn to listen to each another. Communication is the key. Learn to say sorry whether its ur fault or not. You will fight over small things a hundred of times, there isnt a perfect relationship. Theres just two imperfect person working things out. And Its just how you both handle it. And a relationship is a choice. So choose him/her and make the most out of it. Show him what its really like to be loved.
Profile: LittleMissJoy
LittleMissJoy on Oct 25, 2018
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There could be several reasons why you are fighting over small things with another person. It could be the reason because of how much time you spend with this person. When we are constantly in someone else space and vise versa it can cause tension. Simply for the reason that you are not allowing time for yourselves. Instead, it begins to feel like you smother eachother which can cause you to start picking on all the things that annoy you, even if its not things you would usually get annoyed about. Another reason could simply be to get your attention. I know it may sound silly but there are many people who do this kind of thing just as a way of trying to grab someone elses attention.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2018
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There is many possible different reasons. Being easily irritated with your partner could mean its time to break something off, or maybe just a break in general. I know it sucks and it's hard but when its time, its time. Im sorry. Don't sweat the small stuff. You have to make up in your mind that you're not going to argue about dumb stuff. These are those little fights that can turn into big, stupid ones where you can't remember why. See if you're guilty of fighting over these reasons, too. Besides sex, the two of you should have things you like to do together.
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