Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?

Sometimes, when we are tired ir overwhelmed, we easily get irritated over small things. When you feel that you are about to get mad, take a deep breath and think of what you're about to say. If you think it will hurt you if someone said it, then don't say it.

What feels small and stupid to one person may feel big and important to another. In our everyday lives, the little things can grow to assume enormous proportions - because an accumulation of little things is what makes up our days!

It happens. Fights aren't great but they are part of a healthy relationship. Fighting means you care or sometimes it means things are just not right. When I tend to fight with someone over small and stupid things I am annoyed or bothered or I just need my space.

Imagine a jar which represents the state of mind (I guess), and then imagine filling it with drops of water (or whatever liquid) until it comes to the point of leaking, this would be a representation of us facing with daily stress either at work, at school, at home etc. and adding up to that stress day by day to the point in which any small thing could annoy us.

Small and stupid things have different meaning to different people . its all a matter if perspective. When we change our perspective our attitude changes

It could be the response to a problem or fear each part of a relationship might have. Identifying factors that trigger fighting might be good in order to heal the relationship

Bc sometimes people are struggling with things all by themselves and since we’re just humans we just don’t know what to do with and we take it out on someone else. It can have a lot of reason why we’re fighting and why we’re angry but most importantly the answer is that we’re just humans and we’re not perfect. we make a lot of mistakes and sometimes our emotions take over us.

There could possibly be to much stress in your relationship/friendship and y’all could talk them out which could possibly help.

Its normal. It would be wierd if you didnt. Fighting over little things( until it gets really serious) is normal in a healthy relationship. Keeping in mind ni relationship is a perfect one. Only you both can try to make it a beautiful relationship. Try working on it a bit. I know you can. :)

As human beings we are complex. Our process to learn something is step by step; that's mean that we are fighting over small and stupid things because in the moment of fighting we think that these things aren't stupid or small; we think that these things are important and we feel them big. When the situation pass, we learn how to do or what to do in the future, we get experience over the time; as a result, we think that they are stupid and small because we know how to deal with them. All is depending on each person's mind and the period of time that the person is passing through.